Today I am grateful for our Granddaughter Ella, who today turned 5!
| Determined not to smile! |
The photos aren't great but we did have a nice afternoon with her and Nathan after school.
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| Determined not to smile! |
The photos aren't great but we did have a nice afternoon with her and Nathan after school.
Years ago (I was about 3 I think) my Mother had to have a hysterectomy. At that time she was still doing washing by hand but had a spin dryer. To make her life easier my Dad bought her a Twin Tub washing machine.
Now I get that it was probably easier than doing it by hand but easy? Definitely not.
First you had to fill the washing tub compartment and wait for the water to heat up.....
Then the washing went in. Washing that had been sorted into various groups, whites, light colours, dark colours etc.
The washing got a swirl in the washing tub.
Then you had to lift out the washing into the spinnner part of the machine. I can remember the long handled wooden tongs we had for doing that. You couldn't put your hands in the water - it would be too hot.
Now you had to remember what to do with the drain hose. While doing the initial spin it had to be connected back into the washing tub so you didn't lose the water from there. Next it had to be put into the sink as the water was spun out having remembered to connect another hose from the tap to the spinner to rinse the washing before spinning all the water out.
And repeat! Oh and at the end you would have to drain out the water from the washing tub which involved a bowl on the floor at the end - gravity you know. Lovely dirty water!
So today I am grateful for my automatic washing machine and to its inventor. It makes multi-tasking a doddle!
1) Well I'm keeping the autumn picture because there are still a lot of leaves around, although a lot more on the ground than on the trees now. It's also been quite mild this week but we have had quite a bit of rain. I'm thankful that's it's not got really cold yet.
2) Leftovers! Our DIL made a veggie Lasagne earlier in the week and as usual made too much so our Daughter brought it with her when she worked from "home" here. It was delicious and saved us having to prepare a meal.
3) A good meet up of the afternoon book club. There were only 4 of us but we had good discussions about the book we'd read and sorted out choices for the next 2 reads so we won't be waiting around for the library to get books ordered in. They also had my library card at the library. I'd managed to leave it behind (probably on the self-service machine) again!
4) A good training day at The Hub yesterday on Mental Health awareness. It was really interesting and helpful.
5) Cuddle time with my daughter's kitten.
Well that's me caught up with what should have been posted yesterday.
Today I'm grateful for time this afternoon to catch up with other bloggers and get myself up to date again and now a quiet evening in with Strictly Come Dancing to watch.
Enjoy the rest of the weekend all.
This idea came from Joyce who blogs here. The idea is to pick a day and write about your day and then share it on Joyce's post.
Joyce had sensibly prepared hers in advance. I chose today, Thursday 13th November 2025.
Thursdays are always busy for me as it's my main volunteering day at the Foodbank.
My alarm went off at 7.30. Usually there's no alarm unless there is an appointment or something planned. I love being retired.
Usually before I move I do the daily Wordle and the various other puzzles on the NYT puzzle app. Today there was only time for Wordle before getting up.
Hubby was showing no signs of moving so I set the air fryer to warm up while I had a quick shower. After showering I threw some sausages in the air fryer and went to get dressed. I managed to get downstairs again in time to fry a couple of eggs and do some toast. Days at the Foodbank require fuel!
Hubby has an extra slice of toast with marmalade. I went for a slice of fruit loaf this morning.
Here am I ready to go, complete with Hub fleece.
I was on my own in the stockroom today so I didn't manage to get everything put away but I did do a lot. I didn't finish until nearly 2pm having got there at 9 am.
My next thing on the to do list was to go to nearby Walthamstow which is just 2 stops by train. I needed to see if I could get my engagement ring repaired. I lost a diamond from it a week or so ago. I found the shop I'd been recommended quite quickly and they will source a new diamond and replace a missing claw as well as strengthen the other claws. It will probably feel like a completely new ring by the time they've finished - it should at the price it's going to cost. But hey it's my engagement ring, I've had it 42 years!
I came back on the bus as that involved less walking and less stairs. By the time I got home my step count was:
Joyce provides the questions (thank you Joyce) and we provide the answers and then join in the fun here.
1. What does patriotism mean to you?
To me it means loving your country and being proud of its traditions and culture.
2. September-October-November...your favourite fall month? Tell us why. If you live in the southern hemisphere use these months but sub spring for the word fall.
Definitely September as it's still light into the evening and the weather is usually good. And after the summer breaks it's good to get back into routines.
3. A song you love with the word thanks (or some form of that word) in the title or lyrics?
Well I am usually useless at remembering songs and lyrics but the one that came to mind when I read this question was "Thank you for the Music" by Abba.
4. November is National Peanut Butter Month. Are you a fan? What's the last peanut butter bite you had? Fill in the blank: peanut butter and _____________________ .
No thanks! I am not a fan of peanut butter in any form but Hubby will often have peanut butter and apple but some of the grandkids will have peanut butter and jam!
Oh, and you can't say jelly.
5. This week's gratitude question-What event from this past year are you most grateful for?
Several weddings and 2 new babies in our extended family. It continues to grow!
6. Insert your own random thought here.
Another thing I'm grateful for is the guy on the next check out machine to me at the supermarket today who allowed me to use my loyalty card on his shopping. He will probably have benefitted from some lower prices but I gained the loyalty points. Win win.
I needed to get a birthday present for Granddaughter Ella. This required driving to Westfield, a huge Mall not too far from us. I try and avoid going there too often. It's always busy, the car parks are a challenge and I often do not find it a pleasurable experience.
Anyway today went smoothly. The traffic wasn't too bad. I found a parking space ok and Hubby and I headed to John Lewis a department store.
We found the perfect dress for Ella,
Mission accomplished we decided to quit while we were ahead and made our way home.
Today I'm grateful that I was able to babysit Ella for a short time after school but also that I was able to cope with Milo. I'll spare everyone the details but the litter tray featured in the situation! 😹
Plus watching the parakeets squabbling over the bird feeders - we have a lot of parakeets in our area and there were lots trying to get food this morning. The local squirrel was also doing his usual contortion of hanging upside down while prising out sunflower seeds from the low hanging feeder.
I love being up first and enjoying my first cup of tea when the house is quiet and the birds are busy.
And to all the members of the public that put tokens into the charity box at Tesco. We collected the most tokens last month and will receive £1500 from Tesco. Makes a huge difference!
Well I have been trying to keep a gratitude log this month - inspired by Linda who blogs here so that ties in nicely with the Friday's Fave Five.
1) Yesterday I briefly mentioned being grateful for the lovely community here in Highams Park where I live. We had been to a Quiz Night combined with a wine tasting event organised by the owner of our local wine bar but held in the church where we run the Food Bank with proceeds going to the Food Bank. It was a great event and it was sold out. The Church was FULL. It was a really fun event - we had 3 wines to taste with questions on them - most of our answers were probably guesses lol. Plus there was a trivia round and a music round. I went with my Hubby, 3 other volunteers and one of their friends and I think we all had a good time. I certainly did. It was lovely to see so many people supporting The Hub.
2) Time with my son and his family last weekend. It was quite brief - I collected them from the airport after their holiday at around 6.30 pm so by the time we got back it was time for the grandkids to go to bed and my son and DIL didn't stay up too late either but we had some time with them on Sunday before they headed off for home and to collect their dog from kennels.
3) A Knit and Natter session on Wednesday. My WIP (which is actually finishing my daughter's project) is almost done. I'm working on a border and then there are just the ends to sew in. JUST the ends lol. (Crafters will understand.)
4) Progress on an extended family matter. I spent the day on Wednesday with 2 of my SILs which was nice and we did make some progress. Still a long way to go but every little helps.
5) A supportive Hubby. He usually cooks breakfast most days and the main meal and is happy to work around our timetables which is a great help to me and when I was out on Wednesday he cut the grass and cleared up leaves in the garden - without needing a reminder lol.
Have a good weekend all.
Well this is a day late but yesterday I was glad of the wonderful community we have here in Highams Park. I'll elaborate more in my Friday's Fave Five post.
2. Dictionary.com's word of the year is '6-7'. Huh?
Is it even a word??? I had to consult the internet to find out it's meaning because apparently I'm old and this particular slang is not part of my vocabulary. Is it part of yours? According to the article I read, it's a viral term, more of an inside joke with an unclear meaning driven by social media.
Definitely not part of my vocabulary. I hadn't even heard of it.
What do you think?
Dictionary. com says it's selection each year is a 'linguistic time capsule reflecting social trends and events, but they also admitted to being confused by '6-7'. Some say it means so-so and is sometimes accompanied by the up and down hand motion we associate with the phrase so-so.
Well I suppose we might say I'm at "sixes and sevens" but of course that means confused or in a bit of a mess, definitely nothing to do with so-so. And I would have thought 5-6 would be a better number equivalent for s0-s0.
What word do you think would have made a better choice?
I have absolutely no idea lol.
3. What's a food, trend, activity, or thing people love but you think is just so-so?
Well having spotted the next question I'm going with Bubble Tea although to be honest I've never tried it and I'd probably rate it as a no-no rather than so-so.
4. Are you a tea drinker? Hot or cold? How do you like yours and at what time of day? Do you like flavoured teas or teas billed as calming, energizing, healing, etc?
I am definitely a tea drinker but ordinary tea which has to be hot. (Although my cups often get cold before I finish them.) I like it at any time of the day but I have to have one first thing in the morning or else I'm like this.
5. The November Hodgepodge has always included a weekly gratitude question. Here's the question for today-what are three things that make your heart sing?
6. Insert your own random thought here.
Well I'm trying to make a note of something I'm grateful for each day in November so today I'm grateful to Joyce and all the other bloggers that post memes like this that keep the blogging world turning.
Thank you.
When we first moved here I kept my eye out for a window cleaner but it was quite a while before I spotted one cleaning the windows of a neighbour across the road. I think his name was Tony.
Anyway I approached him and he agreed to add us to his round. He cleaned the windows and said he'd be back in about a month. Great I thought.
Except he wasn't back within a month, or two, or even three. I can't remember how long the gap was before I spotted him again, cleaning our neighbours windows. I was prepared to give him another chance so I waited to hear him cleaning our windows, but he didn't. Next time I looked out there was no sign of him. He'd vanished, again.
Some time later I spotted another window cleaner cleaning a different neighbours windows so I approached him - Quinn and he cleaned our windows, front and back, for a reasonable price and said he'd be around each month.
I didn't hold my breath but he has been roughly once a month ever since. He uses a water spraying system which means he doesn't use ladders. It's probably not such a thorough method but at least I'm not going to find him lying on the ground having fallen from a ladder.
Well Quinn was here today so my windows are clean and I'm grateful.
Today I'm grateful for my DIL Vicky - it was her birthday today and my daughter and Vicky recently celebrated their 10th wedding anniversary.
I managed 6 books which was a huge improvement from the 2 of the previous month.
First off was:
The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry by Rachel Joyce
My rating: 4 of 5 stars
Recently retired, sweet, emotionally numb Harold Fry is jolted out of his passivity by a letter from Queenie Hennessy, an old friend, who he hasn't heard from in twenty years. She has written to say she is in hospice and wanted to say goodbye. Leaving his tense, bitter wife Maureen to her chores, Harold intends a quick walk to the corner mailbox to post his reply but instead, inspired by a chance encounter, he becomes convinced he must deliver his message in person to Queenie—who is 600 miles away—because as long as he keeps walking, Harold believes that Queenie will not die.
So without hiking boots, rain gear, map or cell phone, one of the most endearing characters in current fiction begins his unlikely pilgrimage across the English countryside. Along the way, strangers stir up memories—flashbacks, often painful, from when his marriage was filled with promise and then not, of his inadequacy as a father, and of his shortcomings as a husband.
Ironically, his wife Maureen, shocked by her husband's sudden absence, begins to long for his presence. Is it possible for Harold and Maureen to bridge the distance between them? And will Queenie be alive to see Harold arrive at her door?
I really enjoyed this book. It's definitely a feel good book although there are some very sad bits in it too. It seemed such a mad thing for Harold to do, set off to walk from his home to visit his dying friend Queenie in a hospice in Berwick upon Tweed - 600 miles away.
That's where I think the book falls down a bit and why I couldn't give it 5* - I'm not sure that Harold could actually have done the walk with his lack of preparation. But I did enjoy how the time walking gave Harold the chance to reflect on his life and there were a few unexpected moments. And of course I wanted to know if he would make it and if Queenie would still be alive.
Next up was:
The Missing Family by Tim Weaver
My rating: 5 of 5 stars
One family...
On a beautiful summer's day, at a remote lake in the middle of Dartmoor, three members of the Fowler family take a dinghy out onto the water, leaving mother Sarah at the shore.
Less than sixty seconds later, she checks to see where they are. The boat is drifting in the middle of the lake. It's empty. Sarah's family have completely vanished.
One killer...
At the Skyline Casino in London, the security team have just made a headline-grabbing they've spotted and detained a man suspected of murdering a high roller.
After locking him in one of their holding cells, the team station themselves outside and wait for the police. But when the cops arrive, they find something impossible.
The killer is no longer inside the cell.
Two detectives...
David Raker is an expert at solving missing persons puzzles - but these mysteries are unlike anything he's ever seen.
As he digs into the Fowler's, his long-time ally - ex-detective, Colm Healy - tries to get to the bottom of what happened at the casino.
But the men are in danger. Because, buried in the shadows of both cases, is a deadly secret that was never meant to come out...
I did not want to put this book down - had me gripped right from the start. How does a family disappear from the middle of a lake in sixty seconds? How does a man locked in a cell disappear?
Two questions that investigator David Raker is tasked with finding the answers to, which lead to a complicated, multi-layered storyline that moves between past and present and the UK and USA.
Fast moving and with lots of twists and turns I was reading late into the night.
I needed some light relief after that one so I read:
The Magician's Nephew by C S Lewis which filled a 52 Book challenge prompt by being a Prequel.
That was followed by:
Sense and Sensibility by Jane Austen
My rating: 4 of 5 stars
This is not the edition I read - I have a hardback copy of the complete works of Austen. It is a heavy book and the print is really small. Sense & Sensibility only has 175 pages. But of course that is in comparison to over 400 in the paperback version. It's been on my TBR list for a while but I finally got around to it for the 52 book club prompt #30 - In the Public Domain.
Austen's command of language is extraordinary but it isn't easy to read. The relationships between the characters in the book were complicated. But I loved it. Why not 5 stars? It almost felt like the 3rd sister needn't have been in the book, she played so little a part. And I couldn't wholeheartedly recommend it for reading to everyone - not everyone would appreciate the richness of the vocabulary and Austen's clever observations of people's behaviour.
When I find a good book that's part of a series I tend to continue the series. For my next book I went back to the first in the David Raker series (The Missing Family book above was #13!)
Chasing the Dead by Tim Weaver
My rating: 3 of 5 stars
It starts out as a sad but hopeless case of mistaken identity. A year after the death of her son Alex, Mary Towne is convinced she's seen him alive - and wants missing persons investigator David Raker to find him. Reluctant at first, but haunted by a loss of his own, Raker eventually agrees.
If I'd read this first I might not have bothered with any subsequent books. It's a good thriller, it kept me turning the pages. But....it's quite scary at times and there is a lot of brutality in it. Cruel brutality. And a main character who seems to develop superhuman strength, fighting his way out of situations when most would have just rolled over and given up.
There was also a twist at the end that didn't really feel credible. It was quite good for a debut novel and the subsequent book in the series I read was much better.
The final book I read in October was the choice for the afternoon Library book club:
The Beginner’s Goodbye by Anne Tyler
My rating: 4 of 5 stars
Anne Tyler gives us a wise, haunting, and deeply moving new novel in which she explores how a middle-aged man, ripped apart by the death of his wife, is gradually restored by her frequent appearances in their house, on the roadway, in the market.
Crippled in his right arm and leg, Aaron has spent his childhood fending off a sister who wants to manage him. So when he meets Dorothy, a plain, outspoken, independent young woman, she is like a breath of fresh air. Unhesitatingly, he marries her, and they have a relatively happy, unremarkable marriage.
But when a tree crashes into their house and Dorothy is killed, Aaron feels as though he has been erased forever. Only Dorothy's unexpected appearances from the dead help him to live in the moment and to find some peace.
Gradually he discovers, as he works in the family's vanity-publishing business, turning out titles that presume to guide beginners through the trials of life, that maybe for this beginner there is a way of saying goodbye.
A beautiful, subtle exploration of loss and recovery, pierced throughout with Anne Tyler's humour, wisdom, and always penetrating look at human foibles.
I loved this. The main thread running through the book is how Aaron comes to terms with his grief following the death of his wife Dorothy. It moves along at a nice pace and although nothing really exciting happens it wasn’t a chore to read. It was a lovely exploration of their marriage, mainly in hindsight and the grieving process of a husband for a wife.
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Hopefully November will be a good month for reading too. I'm currently reading Homecoming by Kate Morton.
I'm a day late but here goes:
Yesterday I was grateful to be able to collect my son and his family from the airport after their holiday. It was lovely to see the grandkids and they had all had a great time away.
Today I'm grateful for pushing myself to get out for a walk. It's wellington boot time again for walking around the lake as we've had a lot of rain this past week. I think I might need to invest in some ear muffs too. It didn't feel cold enough for a hat but my ears were really cold!
I'm also grateful that we can afford to buy things like bird food. There were a lot of birds on the lake today - we seem to have gained a flock of Canada Geese since I was last there. All the birds were hungry so it was good to be able to give them food.
1) Dinner at our daughter's last Sunday. It was the first time we'd seen all of them since they got back from their holiday so it was good to catch up with them and spend time with the Grandkids.
2) 1:1 time with Grandson Nathan on Monday and thankfully the weather was dry so a lot of time was spent playing football in the garden which he loves. Certainly got a good step count that day!
3) A long overdue catch up with a couple of friends on Wednesday. We met up for lunch and spent several hours catching up on each others' lives.
4) 1:1 time with Granddaughter Ella today. We played a lot of games - according to the rules of Ella. Who knew that the object of Kerplunk was to get as many balls as possible? Or that the Junior version of UNO was more like Snap? And thankfully I managed to wangle a game of Snakes and Ladders so that Ella won. It's hard to lose games when you're 4, especially when you're a bit of a collector so don't like giving things up.
5) Support for our Foodbank. The local wine bar is hosting a quiz for us next week and it's sold out so hopefully that will be a nice cash injection for it. Plus our local Waitrose supermarket has the Foodbank as one of their 3 local causes up for a reward. We might not gain anything from that but it will be nice if we do.
Also grateful for a Hubby that agreed to go Trick or Treating with our Grandson - something out of my comfort zone and the great photo log my DIL has done on Instagram of their trip to Norway, Denmark and Germany this week - the Grandkids have clearly had a great time!
And meals in the freezer when we haven't been shopping!
Have a good weekend all.