Friday, 21 June 2024

Friday's Fave Five - 21/6/24



Oh goodness.  When people start checking up on you (thanks Terri) you know it's time to get a blog post done.  And Friday is always a good day to do that as it means taking a pause and thinking about the things we have to be thankful for.

Thanks to our host Susanne for reminding us to do this each week and share our posts here.

1)  There is light at the end of the tunnel that is "getting my son's flat ready for renting".

The last few weeks have just blurred together as we've cleared, stored, sold, or thrown out all the things in the flat.  There are still a few bits and pieces to deal with but first we have to finish all the cleaning, decorating and all the other things that are required before it can be handed over to the letting agent to take care of.  There is also a large pile of boxes almost ready for shipping to the US.

Their flight to the US is booked for the 11th July so we are counting down the days.


Some things moved from their house to ours!



Still time to spend with cousins.

2)  My son's work ethic and parenting skills.  It's been a tough time since our DIL and grandson Rory left for Vermont on 22nd May but Michael has risen to the challenge and is doing a great job single parenting Vinny and doing what needs to be done with the flat.  As you can imagine it's been hard.  Vinny misses his Mummy and brother and although being able to talk to them over the internet mostly helps it can also have the opposite effect too.  There have been lots of tears.  

We've revisited skills we haven't used for a while such as painting and also gained new ones - today between us we fitted a new timer switch to their water heater that is much more user friendly than the old one.

3)  Hubby and I reached the milestone of 40 years married a couple of weeks ago.  We had originally planned to go away for the weekend to celebrate together quietly.  Instead we took advantage of a local yard sale to try and get rid of some of our son's "stuff".  We did sell some things but our garden room and garage are now full of things that we still need to dispose of.  I'm not even going to think about that until the flat is sorted, we have our house back to ourselves and we've had a break from all the current stress.

4)  My DIL has secured a teaching job in Vermont.  She will start in August and it has the added bonus of pre-school provision for Vinny.  It's a 30 minute drive from their house but that's about half the time she used to commute here on public transport.  That's a huge weight off their shoulders as you can imagine.

5)  Easy meals, takeaways, dinners from the freezer and a grandson that really isn't too fussy.  The days start early - Vinny is usually up around 6-6.30 am and then we've been at the flat most days until it's time to collect Vinny from nursery and get home for dinner.  And of course a Hubby who cooks.  And chocolate!  Needed a lot of chocolate these last few weeks.

Of course all of this hasn't left much time for blogging and I really haven't had the headspace for it either.  

Have a good weekend all - we'll be taking a breather before getting back to the "to do" list on Monday!


10 comments:

  1. Busy Busy!! So glad she got a teaching job in VT! i'm headed to Manchester VT to lead a hike to a gorgeous waterfalls in the middle of July. We LOVe VT and only live 40 min from the state line near Bennington.

    I hope you can relax soon!!

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  2. I was so happy when your post popped into my Feedly!! My goodness, you have been crazy busy, Wendy! No wonder we haven't heard from you. Enjoy your quiet weekend and thanks for catching us up!! xo

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  3. Hi Wendy! It's good to hear what you have been up to. Sounds like it has been a busy time for you and your family. I hope you can relax some over the weekend and that the rest of the move to Vermont for your son and family goes smoothly. See you again soon!

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  4. It seems you follow in my footsteps ! I had 5 moves in 3 1/2 ! My son emptied his fathers room in the caring home and helped me moving into my residence, but before I had to empty our house, move in and out the apartment and then always the paper work and the funerals in between. Looking back I don't know how I managed all this. Next month I will be 81 (prefer to turn the nr around 18) you helped a lot with the move to Vermont ! That's nice that your DIL found a good job ! I suppose you both will visit Vermont once they are settled ! For Vinny it will be a big change ! He will get the American accent ! Lol !

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  5. You certainly have had been busy getting everything ready for your son to fly to the U.S! I'm sure he will be so glad to have it all done on your end and unite his family once again.
    Happy Anniversary to you and your husband. Maybe when the dust settles, you two can get away for a day or two to celebrate.
    Congratulations on your daughter in law's teaching job. It's great that there will be provision for Vinny there.
    Have a great weekend.

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  6. Moving is so stressful--I imagine even more so out of country. I'm sure your son is glad for your help. Vinny doesn't have too many days left til the family is back together. Your d-i-l's job situation sounds great.

    Happy anniversary! I hope you'll be able to do something fun together soon.

    Yay fore easy meals, a husband who cooks, and chocolate!

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  7. I don't envy you having to try and get rid of everything. So hard for Vinny not being able to have mummy cuddles. It is an exciting time for your son and dil starting a new life but will be sad having to say goodbye.

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  8. A very busy week indeed! Congrats on your DIL getting a teaching job. May the move be smooth for them. That is huge moving that far away and across the ocean. Happy Anniversary to you both!

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  9. I hopped over to see if everything was okay here and was happy to see a post. Sounds so exhausting and I'm sure it's all quite emotional as well. Happy Anniversary! We celebrated 40 in June at my grandson's 2nd birthday party. We are calling our trip back to the UK our anniversary celebration. Hang in there!

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  10. Happy Anniversary !!! Sending big hugs as everyone adjusts.
    Carla

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