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Saturday, 17 October 2026
#SoCS - 17/10/26 - Pitch
Saturday, 10 October 2026
#SoCS - 10/10/26
Saturday, 3 October 2026
#SoCS - 3/10/26 - Breeze
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There must be some sort of breeze going on because the clouds have gathered and it looks like we will probably get some promised rain soon. I should probably get the washing in and put it on the indoor airer. Wish I'd done that in the first place.
Saturday, 1 August 2026
SoCS - 1/8/26- Draw
I had to draw in a deep breath the other day, so that I didn't say something I might have regretted to my Hubby.
Saturday, 30 May 2026
#SoCS - 30/5/26 - Impress
Your Friday prompt for Stream of Consciousness Saturday is “impress” Use it as a verb, use it as a noun, use it any way you’d like. Enjoy!
Well one thing that does impress me is the people who blog regularly, some even every day, and come up with prompts for challenges like Linda who blogs here and comes up with our #SoCS prompt every week. She also does a One Liner Wednesday and is behind the Just Jot it January challenge which is a huge undertaking.
I also take part in the Wednesday Hodgepodge hosted by Joyce here and I try not to miss Friday's Fave Fives which Susanne hosts here.
Of course there are lots of blog hops that it's quite easy to find one for every day of the week but I do like to be a little bit original if I can. One of the reasons I love the A-Z challenge that takes place in April is that it makes me blog every day but also allows me to come up with my own posts. The team behind that challenge, which has been running since 2010 are very impressive.
Blogging every day is sometimes a challenge too far for me though. I have done better this year, trying to have a blog hop or a theme running for every day of the week. I had a think about what sort of posts I wanted to do and how the week would look and came up with the following:
Sunday would be looking back on the photos I'd taken in the previous week.
Monday would just be me waffling on like I usually do, probably with a weekend recap or something that I hoped readers might find worth reading.
Tuesday is the News day - trying to pick out interesting pieces of news locally, internationally, items relating to sports and entertainment and then either a feel good story or something quirky.
Wednesday is Hodgepodge Day
Thursday is something book related
Friday is the Fave Five of the week and then
Saturday is of course #SoCS.
Yep, something for every day. Sounds impressive. The reality is somewhat less. For starters I am rubbish at taking photos. Not when I actually take them - I usually try to get a decent photo. No the problem is remembering to take them. Things happen and I think I should have taken a photo of that but then the moment is gone. Of course I could just take a picture of my dinner every day like a lot of Instagrammers seem to do but as my only input to that would be the eating of said meal (Hubby does the cooking here) that didn't seem right. I do try and think of a good pic now and again but I definitely haven't made that habit stick, yet!
As for the news, well that has been quite depressing for such a long time really so some weeks it's been hard to find stories that are a bit more uplifting.
The other days have been a bit easier but I don't always do well on the #SoCS front. The problem I find with #SoCS is that there are a lot of authors and poets who take part and they write impressive posts and I look at mine and think that's a bit trite so I don't always link them to Linda's page.
And then of course throw in a visit from my son and his family, down from Nottingham for a few days, which then involves my daughter and her family coming here too and blogging gets put on the back burner. I was AWOL for a whole week!
Still I'm here today and I will link to Linda's site as I think I've used the prompt word a few times at least.
Happy weekend all.
Saturday, 9 May 2026
#SoCS - 9/5/26 - Contrast
These weekly prompts are provided by Linda and the link up is here. Thanks Linda.
Well the idea of these posts is that we don't really think about them too much - just get writing and see what flows. I'm having a hard time thinking what to write about this word. I know what it means but what to write about it?
In contrast, when I know what I'm going to write I can waffle on for ages. I've just recently finished the A-Z challenge during April and had a lovely time waffling on about authors and the books that I've read. Reading is another thing I could talk about for ages. I love reading and proper books mainly although I will read e-books too. In fact I've just downloaded one from the library to read.
I'm trying to work through my TBR pile but failing miserably. That's what happens when you join two reading groups and you're also doing a challenge based on 52 prompts for the year. Thankfully the reading group choices have worked for prompts on the list so I'm keeping the number of books I need to read over the year manageable. I can usually get through a book a week without too much trouble. Depending on the book of course. Some of the reading groups choices have taken a while! Not because they're particularly long but because they weren't as enjoyable. The discussions on some of the books have been interesting.
Oh and there has been contrast there with people either loving or hating a book!
Phew got that in eventually.
Saturday, 2 May 2026
#SoCS - 2/5/26 - Neat
Linda hosts SoCS and today's offerings can be found here. Thank you Linda.
Your Friday prompt for Stream of Consciousness Saturday is “neat.” Use it any way you’d like. Enjoy!
I spent some time yesterday helping a young relative sort out clothing. They have had a rough time over the last few years and lost both parents in 2025. Persuading them to tackle the mountain of clothes in the house has not been easy. We all grieve in different ways and we need to be ready for each task before it can be done.
Recently though progress has been made and when it became clear that they were ready to at least make a start on sorting out the clothing, a couple of family members were happy to step in and help. Including me.
It was a bit like doing a Marie Kondo clear out - holding up an item of clothing except instead of "does it spark joy?" or "do you love it?", we had keep, charity shop or rubbish. The keep and charity shop also being sub divided into wash or clean. Decisions were made quickly and no time was allowed for a change of mind.
I came home with a lot of bags for the charity shops. I didn't actually count them yet (they're in my garage) but there's at least 10. Now I could well do without this task but I knew that if we left those bags there they would probably still be there in weeks to come and they really don't have the space. Anyway I was just so glad that this task is finally being tackled and I have the time and energy to move the bags on, either by taking them to a charity shop or by putting them out for the regular street collections that get done by charities around here.
I think it will be some time before the rooms we were liberating can be classed as neat and tidy but it was a huge step forward that we can hopefully build on soon.
Saturday, 28 March 2026
#SoCS - 28/3/26 - Portrait
Linda provides the prompts for #SoCS and the link up is here.
Your Friday prompt for Stream of Consciousness Saturday is “portrait.” Use it way you’d like. Have fun!
Why is it that when you take a selfie which is just another word for portrait, the result never looks the same as what I see in the mirror?!
Short and sweet. I was at the Foodbank all morning dealing with deliveries so I'm off for a sit down and possibly a nap. Hope no one takes a portrait of that.
Saturday, 21 March 2026
#SoCS - 21/3/26 - Easy/Hard
Your Friday prompt for Stream of Consciousness Saturday is “easy/hard.” Use one, use both, use ’em any way you’d like. Bonus points if you get both words into your post. Enjoy!
Well I'm going to use both by asking is it easy/hard to listen to an audio book?
I have never really settled to listening to audio books. Some years ago my daughter gifted me a six month subscription to audible but I was still working at the time so the only time I really had for reading was when I went to bed.
Well I'm sure you can guess what happened. I would often fall asleep listening to the book so I consequently found myself having to backtrack, trying to work out at what point I was up to when I fell asleep and often reading the same chapter over and over.
Needless to say I did not renew the subscription when the gift period expired.
Fast forward to now and I read a lot. I'm retired so I can really read as much as I want and when I want. I do love a physical book but I also like the convenience of reading on my Kindle App, especially when on holiday. But I've kept away from audio books.
Until today. I mistakenly ordered an audio version of a book from the library rather than the physical copy. I decided to give it a go.
Straight off I had to speed it up. The narrator's voice was boring and slow. I worked out how to speed it up and I actually managed to listen to the whole book during the course of this afternoon and evening.
It was Wednesday's Child by Peter Robinson which is a DCI Banks story. (Actually #6 in the series.) This is a very English crime series that has been televised. I enjoyed the TV series and the books have been ok so far. (I'm trying to read them in order.) They're not 5 star material but they're quite gritty at times. This one was a bit more graphic than some and the crime centred around a child abduction.
My main problems with the audio version were that:
1) I found the narrator annoying - and it was the same one for all the characters, men and women; and
2) I noticed how much detail there was in all the descriptions. Of everything.
Perhaps when I've been reading the books I've skimmed over that or maybe this book was just more descriptive than previous ones.
Anyway I finished it.
But it hasn't persuaded me that audio books are my thing. I was knitting while listening so it was productive in that way but I'm not sure I would necessarily keep all the plot details in my head if I was doing something that required a bit more concentration. Chick lit might work I suppose but I'm not convinced.
I'll definitely be more careful when ordering books from the library in future though!
Are you an audio book fan?
Saturday, 14 March 2026
#SoCS - 13/3/26 - Review
The Stream of Consciousness Saturday prompts are provided by Linda. To find out more or to take part go here. Thanks Linda.
Your prompt for Stream of Consciousness Saturday is “review.” Use it any way you’d like. Have fun!
I seem to be writing a lot of books reviews lately. I'm definitely doing a lot of reading and I try to review all the books I read even if it's only a few lines.
Being a member of two in person book clubs that were set up through my local library means getting through at least 2 books per month but taking part in the 52 Book Club challenge means I actually trying to get through a book a week. Which is doable. Just. Although some of the books I've earmarked to read for the 52 Book Club Challenge are long.
Wherever possible I'm trying to find prompts for the book club reads and so far I've managed to do that this year. Not sure where I might fit "The trouble with goats and sheep" by Joanna Cannon into but hopefully it will work for something. I haven't started it yet but it's a re read for me so I'm sure it won't take me too long to get through it.
I quite enjoy doing those sort of reviews - helps me to remember the book having written about it.
The reviews I hate doing, and actually don't do very often are the ones from companies after you've bought a product. Or the delivery companies wanting to know how the delivery was. Including how the person delivery the item did. Well how should I know? Most times you don't even see them. They leave the parcel in my porch. If I'm lucky they might ring the doorbell or use the knocker but most times they don't. But of course there will be an e-mail telling me they've delivered the parcel. Which will probably be about the 5th or 6th email about that item. You know how it goes:
Thank you for your order.
We're processing your order.
We've despatched your order.
The courier has your order.
We'll let you know when your order is out for delivery.
Your order is out for delivery.
Your order was delivered.
How was your delivery?
How was your order?
Actually that amounts to at least 9 emails about ink cartridges I ordered. And of course if something goes wrong there are even more e-mails!
And then you want me to leave a review? Sorry, not happening. Unless I have something to complain about, then you'll hear from me.
I have better things to do. Happy weekend.
Saturday, 7 March 2026
#SoCS - 7/3/26 - Distance
Your Friday prompt for Stream of Consciousness Saturday is “distance.” Use it any way you’d like. Enjoy!
The prompts for #SoCS are provided by Linda who blogs here. Pop over to her site to find out more and see who is joining in.
I am really trying to go the distance here with my blog. Apart from a couple of late night posts which just slipped over the midnight mark I think I've managed to post something everyday this year.
Of course the Just Jot it January challenge helped. (Also hosted by Linda - Thanks!) and now I've got into a bit of routine with the various types of posts I'm doing on regular days. #SoCS is of course the regular Saturday post but it's probably one of the easier ones because the prompts are random and the very nature of the posts suits my waffling tendency.
But some days are easier than others. Especially when you have other things to be done too. A reading challenge for example. Which requires 52 books over the year. Again I'm doing ok so far, even slightly ahead of myself but some books are easier than others to read. And there are the two IRL reading groups I'm in through my local library. I really enjoy those because I've met new people through them and as we moved to an area where I knew no one that's a definite bonus for me.
I also joined a knitting group for the same reason - to meet people, but of course that means I have to do some knitting. Oh and attend the group meetings. At least this group only meets fortnightly and the book groups are monthly.
Then there is the keep fit group that meets weekly which is vital - I need to keep in shape! Although the shifting of crates of food at the foodbank is probably as good a workout as going to a gym.
Don't have time for a gym!
Throw in babysitting and keeping the house clean and tidy and the weeks go by in a blink of the eye. Especially when I'm also keeping an eye on the steps/distance I walk. Distance today: 2.06 miles.
I'm so glad I'm retired.
Saturday, 28 February 2026
#SoCS - 28/2/26 - Smooth
Your Friday prompt for Stream of Consciousness Saturday is “smooth.” Use it any way you’d like. Have fun!
Our host for #SoCS is Linda who blogs here.
Why is it that building works never seem to keep to plan and run smoothly? Many of you will know that I volunteer at our local Foodbank which is actually held in a Church. We run sessions on a Tuesday and Thursday, with a community cafe operating on Wednesdays but after the session on Thursday we have to clear all the food from the Church into a storage room.
Well that was the start of the post I was in the process of doing when our landline rang. It hardly ever rings and it's usually some sort of spam or scam but it was actually my eldest brother as I discovered when he started to leave a message on the answer machine.
Fortunately I intercepted his call before he hung up. Unfortunately he was ringing to tell me that my SIL passed away peacefully this morning. Not something I was expecting. Life definitely isn't always smooth.
Saturday, 21 February 2026
#SoCS - 21/2/26 - Pre.......
Your Friday prompt for Stream of Consciousness Saturday is “starts with ‘pre’.” Find a word that starts with “pre” and use it any way you’d like. Enjoy!
The prompts are supplied each week by Linda who blogs here. Pop over to see who else is taking part.
Previously when doing a SoCS post I've often had some thought about it before I've started. It's hard not to I find when we get the prompt the day preceding the day we're supposed to be posting.
Of course I could do the post on a Friday and schedule it to post on Saturday but I don't usually do that. To me that would almost feel premature. So now it's quite late on Saturday evening and I'm definitely winging it by trying to think of as many words starting with pre and fitting them into this post. The presentation will probably suffer as I've also been watching the Men's Curling final on the TV and although the presenters did a good job, it's hard to stay upbeat when your team was playing well but then in the closing stages the advantage swings to the other team and Team GB ended up with the silver medal again. It was hard to watch. But so much of the Winter Olympics is for Team GB - we don't really have the conditions here in the UK and I know that many of the athletes end up training abroad. Curling is probably one of the few sports that are done here in the UK although predominantly in Scotland.
And now I'm stuck. My mind is going blank. Presumably it's trying to tell me I need some sleep. I had an early start at the Foodbank this morning - I go to accept deliveries from another church on a Saturday and this morning the drivers bringing the deliveries were really early. Fortunately I had pre-empted any disaster by being up and ready to go but I only just arrived in time and didn't keep them waiting.
Now it's time for bed. My predetermined alarm has been reminding me for the previous half an hour that it's time. The present needs to become the past. Goodnight!
Saturday, 14 February 2026
#SoCS - 14/2/26 - Love
Your Friday prompt for Stream of Consciousness Saturday is “love.” Use it any way you’d like. Have fun, and happy Valentine’s Day! To join in the fun go here.
Well of course Love is an appropriate word for today being St. Valentines Day.
We don't make a big thing of it in our house. I did get a card from Hubby - well he tried to sign it anonymously but it was a bit of a give away that it was left on the bed for me to find. I don't need big displays of affection or expensive bouquets of flowers to know that he loves me.
I know that he does in the way that he supports me especially when things are difficult. He's always there for me when I need him to be, holding my hand when the children arrived. Helping me through loss when my Mum passed away. Ready to listen when I need to talk but not pushing too hard.
Stepping up when he needs to. (Although he might need a little reminder here or there lol)
He has never let me down. And of course I love him for all of that and so much more.
He's great with the grandkids too! 😂
Saturday, 7 February 2026
#SoCS - 7/2/26 - Chapter
Your Friday prompt for Stream of Consciousness Saturday is “chapter.” Use it any way you’d like. Enjoy!
To find out more about the Stream of Consciousness Saturday which is hosted by Linda go here.
I'm sure when I was young I would be pleading to read just one more chapter when it was time for bed.
I've always been a reader. I worked my way through a lot of Enid Blyton's books, then things like Little Women, What Katy Did, Black Beauty and so on.
As an adult I've read a lot of crime thrillers, including Agatha Christie, some classics, and a few fantasy and science fiction books. (The Lord of the Rings, Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy.) I like to challenge myself so I'm doing the 52 book Club challenge again this year which involves reading 52 books over the year relating to a set of prompts. Some prompts are simple - e.g. book title beginning with the letter O, some require more research e.g. Author's bio mentions their dog.
This is the third year of doing the challenge and it has pushed me to read books I wouldn't normally look at. I've also been in 2 in person book clubs since last year and that has also widened my reading.
I'm currently reading this:
which starts of with Cora going with her 9 year old daughter Maia to register the birth of her new born son. What follows is the story told from 3 POVs depending on whether the baby becomes Bear, Julian or Gordon. The book seems to be moving on in 7 year gaps but each new year has a chapter about each of the 3 individuals. So of course you can't just read one more chapter when the time moves forward, you have to read three!
Good job I'm now an adult and can do as I please, and retired so I can have a lie in if I've read late into the night.
Saturday, 31 January 2026
#SoCS / JJJ - 31/1/26 - Scratch an Itch
Your prompt for #JusJoJan the 31st and Stream of Consciousness Saturday is: “scratch an itch.” Use it any way you’d like. To join in the fun click HERE.
Saturday, 24 January 2026
#SoCS & JJJ - 24/1/26 - Take another look!
Your prompt for #JusJoJan the 24th and Stream of Consciousness Saturday is: “take another look.” Use it any way you’d like. Enjoy! (Go HERE for all the details.)
Right have you got yourself a cup of tea or coffee? Then settle in to a comfy chair because I know I can waffle on about this prompt for a while.
I am good at finding things. I am methodical in my searching. (Must be my logical brain.) And I'm persistent. If I'm looking for something that I know HAS to be in my house I will keep looking until I find it. Missing socks? Paperwork? Keys? I'm your person.
Hubby is not so great. He will say he's looked when of course he hasn't really looked.
Case in point, on Thursday he was getting ready to go out for the evening and couldn't find his house keys. He claimed to have looked everywhere to which my response was "You can't have looked everywhere because if you had you would have found them."
He muttered something about hoping he hadn't left them in the cafe he'd been to earlier but I was quick to point out that he'd let himself in when he got back so he must have had the keys then. Had he checked he hadn't left them in the door? Yes that has happened on more than one occasion but not this time.
I began to search but by this time he was getting into a panic. He was going to miss his bus. We live right opposite the bus stop and the wonderful TFL app lets us know when a bus will turn up. Or not. It sometimes has a blip but generally it's pretty good. Now bearing in mind that we live in London and the bus service is fairly regular there would be another bus. It wasn't going to be the last bus of the day like in country places where they only come once an hour and stop as soon as it gets dark!
Daughter who was here managed to convince him to take the spare key so he could leave.
I stopped searching. I knew they'd turn up somewhere. Probably in one of his pockets. He does like clothes that have lots of pockets - great for losing your phone! The other day he was searching for his phone and he had on a cycling top that had a pocket on the back. Perfect size for a phone. Even when I was ringing his phone he didn't realise where it was at first. He blamed that on not have his hearing aids in at the time.
Yes that's another thing I have to contend with. If I'm not telling him to take another look I'm telling him to "put your ears in". I wrote earlier in the week about having more patience since I've got older but dealing with Hubby sometimes requires the patience of a saint.
Of course I love him to bits and I did find his keys eventually - on our bed. He'd napped earlier in the day and obviously put his keys down at some point and then covered them with the top sheet. But of course he'd looked there. Good thing I took another look!
Saturday, 17 January 2026
#SoCS & JJJ - 17/1/26 - Favourite Saying
Your prompt for #JusJoJan the 17th and Stream of Consciousness Saturday is: “favourite saying.” Use it any way you’d like. Enjoy!
Soooo SoCS posts are supposed to be done without planning or forward thinking. It's almost 10.30 pm as I'm starting this and I'm not sure my brain is even capable of thinking right now. I've made myself a cup of tea which I may live to regret later (although it is decaf) and I'm trying to think of a favourite phrase.
Hmmmmm not coming up with much. It's been a busy day, well a busy week right now and I think I'm all talked out. Today I helped out at a yarn sale organised by the knitting group I attend. We made about £600 which is being split between two good causes, one of which is the foodbank I volunteer at so that was good.
After that I had a brief bit of time at home when I managed to finish one of my book clubs read "Five Quarters of the Orange" by Joanne Harris. (She of Chocolat fame.) Pondering over how to review that one.
But then we were off to a get together with most of Hubby's siblings to raise a glass to his Mum who died 10 years ago at the end of the month. That was a nice event. It also coincided with one of his sister's birthdays (on Monday) so we had something nice to celebrate too.
But still not coming up with a favourite saying. Although I do seem to remember that "time for bed" was a favourite when the kids were young and I was looking forward to sitting down and relaxing after a day of parenting. And now it's "time for bed" for me.
#SoCS and Just Jot it January are hosted by Linda HERE.
Check out her blog for all the details etc.
Saturday, 10 January 2026
#SoCS & JJJ - 10/1/26 - Don't get me started....
Thanks as always to Linda for hosting this - find her blog, all the rules and other participants here.
Your prompt for #JusJoJan the 10th and Stream of Consciousness Saturday is: “don’t get me started.” Use the phrase in your post or just write about the first thing it conjures in your mind. Use it any way you’d like. Enjoy!
Well I was going to say actually you DO need to get me started because I feel like I've been quite lazy this week. It's been quite a social week and so I've slipped behind with chores at home and I haven't felt particularly motivated on that front.
But actually I'm going to rant about our water company. In the centre of our little area of London there is a train station which is very convenient for us. But this means the trains run straight through our town and there is a level crossing right in the middle of town. We live on one side of it, Tesco our big supermarket is on the other.
This doesn't usually cause major problems, unless the barriers get stuck which is actually only a problem for cars as there is a subway pedestrians can still use. It can be annoying if you arrive in your car at the crossing just as the barriers are going down but they're not usually down for long and then you're on your way.
Or not as it was today because....just the other side of the barrier there is a burst water pipe and so the road that leads to the supermarket is closed. We can drive across the crossing but then we have to go left and there is no way back to the supermarket. (There is a much longer route there via the next crossing under the railway but it seems part of that road may be blocked - by another burst water pipe.)
These burst pipes are popping up all over the place. The very cold snap of weather we had last week has not helped.
But the bigger problem is the underinvestment in the infrastructure. And that's because Thames Water (the provider of our water services) is a Private Limited Company! It was privatised by a Conservative Government in 1989. As such it needs to make profits for its owners.
It's hardly rocket science to see that this is not going to benefit the consumer. When the company was privatised it was debt free and has since run up debts running into BILLIONS.
The infrastructure was in need of major upgrades and they are working on that, slowly but in the meantime leaks keep appearing everywhere and our bills keep going up.
I really cannot understand why utilities are not owned by the Government. They are essential services and require investment. They should not be lining the pockets of investors, many of which are overseas!
Unfortunately when I sent Hubby off in the car armed with a shopping list today I had forgotten about the road closure. He was not happy when he got back. He had to park in a nearby side street and take a long detour to get home again. Fortunately he wasn't doing a huge shop so he was able to carry it back to the car ok. He was not happy though!
Right rant over. It's time for bed here in London.
Don't get me started on anything else.




















