Wednesday, 5 November 2025

Wednesday Hodgepodge - 5/11/25


Joyce provides these questions each week and we write down our answers and then we link up here.
Why not join in the fun?

1. Besides Thanksgiving, something on your November calendar you're looking forward to? 

We're going to a Quiz night tomorrow night, sponsored by our local wine bar in aid of the Foodbank so there will be wine tasting involved to.  Looks like a fun evening.

2. Dictionary.com's word of the year is '6-7'. Huh? 

Is it even a word??? I had to consult the internet to find out it's meaning because apparently I'm old and this particular slang is not part of my vocabulary. Is it part of yours? According to the article I read, it's a viral term, more of an inside joke with an unclear meaning driven by social media.

Definitely not part of my vocabulary.  I hadn't even heard of it.

What do you think? 

Dictionary. com says it's selection each year is a 'linguistic time capsule reflecting social trends and events, but they also admitted to being confused by '6-7'. Some say it means so-so and is sometimes accompanied by the up and down hand motion we associate with the phrase so-so.

Well I suppose we might say I'm at "sixes and sevens" but of course that means confused or in a bit of a mess, definitely nothing to do with so-so.  And I would have thought 5-6 would be a better number equivalent for s0-s0.

What word do you think would have made a better choice? 

I have absolutely no idea lol.

3. What's a food, trend, activity, or thing people love but you think is just so-so? 

Well having spotted the next question I'm going with Bubble Tea although to be honest I've never tried it and I'd probably rate it as a no-no rather than so-so.

4. Are you a tea drinker? Hot or cold? How do you like yours and at what time of day? Do you like flavoured teas or teas billed as calming, energizing, healing, etc? 

I am definitely a tea drinker but ordinary tea which has to be hot.  (Although my cups often get cold before I finish them.)  I like it at any time of the day but I have to have one first thing in the morning or else I'm like this.


  • I'm not a fan of flavoured or calming teas.  They are a whole different type of drink as far as I'm concerned.  My only concession is to decaffeinated tea after around 3pm in the afternoon so that I'm not kept awake at night.

5. The November Hodgepodge has always included a weekly gratitude question. Here's the question for today-what are three things that make your heart sing? 

  • Catching up with the Grandkids, especially the ones that live further away.
  • Taking a walk around the lake or through the forest.
  • Losing myself in a good book.

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

Well I'm trying to make a note of something I'm grateful for each day in November so today I'm grateful to Joyce and all the other bloggers that post memes like this that keep the blogging world turning.

Thank you.

Tuesday, 4 November 2025

November Gratitude Log - 4/11/25


Today I'm grateful for our window cleaner Quinn.  

When we first moved here I kept my eye out for a window cleaner but it was quite a while before I spotted one cleaning the windows of a neighbour across the road.  I think his name was Tony.

Anyway I approached him and he agreed to add us to his round.  He cleaned the windows and said he'd be back in about a month.  Great I thought.

Except he wasn't back within a month, or two, or even three.  I can't remember how long the gap was before I spotted him again, cleaning our neighbours windows.  I was prepared to give him another chance so I waited to hear him cleaning our windows, but he didn't.  Next time I looked out there was no sign of him.  He'd vanished, again.

Some time later I spotted another window cleaner cleaning a different neighbours windows so I approached him - Quinn and he cleaned our windows, front and back, for a reasonable price and said he'd be around each month.  

I didn't hold my breath but he has been roughly once a month ever since.  He uses a water spraying system which means he doesn't use ladders.  It's probably not such a thorough method but at least I'm not going to find him lying on the ground having fallen from a ladder. 

Well Quinn was here today so my windows are clean and I'm grateful.

Monday, 3 November 2025

November Gratitude Log - 3/11/25


Inspired by
 Linda who blogs here I'm trying to keep a gratitude log during November.

Today I'm grateful for my DIL Vicky - it was her birthday today and my daughter and Vicky recently celebrated their 10th wedding anniversary.  


Sunday, 2 November 2025

October's Reads - 2/11/25


Well we're into November so time to look at what I read in October.  

I managed 6 books which was a huge improvement from the 2 of the previous month.

First off was:

The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry (Harold Fry, #1)The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry by Rachel Joyce
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Recently retired, sweet, emotionally numb Harold Fry is jolted out of his passivity by a letter from Queenie Hennessy, an old friend, who he hasn't heard from in twenty years. She has written to say she is in hospice and wanted to say goodbye. Leaving his tense, bitter wife Maureen to her chores, Harold intends a quick walk to the corner mailbox to post his reply but instead, inspired by a chance encounter, he becomes convinced he must deliver his message in person to Queenie—who is 600 miles away—because as long as he keeps walking, Harold believes that Queenie will not die.

So without hiking boots, rain gear, map or cell phone, one of the most endearing characters in current fiction begins his unlikely pilgrimage across the English countryside. Along the way, strangers stir up memories—flashbacks, often painful, from when his marriage was filled with promise and then not, of his inadequacy as a father, and of his shortcomings as a husband.

Ironically, his wife Maureen, shocked by her husband's sudden absence, begins to long for his presence. Is it possible for Harold and Maureen to bridge the distance between them? And will Queenie be alive to see Harold arrive at her door?


I really enjoyed this book. It's definitely a feel good book although there are some very sad bits in it too. It seemed such a mad thing for Harold to do, set off to walk from his home to visit his dying friend Queenie in a hospice in Berwick upon Tweed - 600 miles away.

That's where I think the book falls down a bit and why I couldn't give it 5* - I'm not sure that Harold could actually have done the walk with his lack of preparation. But I did enjoy how the time walking gave Harold the chance to reflect on his life and there were a few unexpected moments. And of course I wanted to know if he would make it and if Queenie would still be alive.

Next up was:

The Missing Family (David Raker, #13)The Missing Family by Tim Weaver
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

One family...
On a beautiful summer's day, at a remote lake in the middle of Dartmoor, three members of the Fowler family take a dinghy out onto the water, leaving mother Sarah at the shore.

Less than sixty seconds later, she checks to see where they are. The boat is drifting in the middle of the lake. It's empty.  Sarah's family have completely vanished.

One killer...
At the Skyline Casino in London, the security team have just made a headline-grabbing they've spotted and detained a man suspected of murdering a high roller.
After locking him in one of their holding cells, the team station themselves outside and wait for the police. But when the cops arrive, they find something impossible.
The killer is no longer inside the cell.

Two detectives...
David Raker is an expert at solving missing persons puzzles - but these mysteries are unlike anything he's ever seen.
As he digs into the Fowler's, his long-time ally - ex-detective, Colm Healy - tries to get to the bottom of what happened at the casino.

But the men are in danger. Because, buried in the shadows of both cases, is a deadly secret that was never meant to come out...

I did not want to put this book down - had me gripped right from the start. How does a family disappear from the middle of a lake in sixty seconds? How does a man locked in a cell disappear?

Two questions that investigator David Raker is tasked with finding the answers to, which lead to a complicated, multi-layered storyline that moves between past and present and the UK and USA.

Fast moving and with lots of twists and turns I was reading late into the night.

I needed some light relief after that one so I read:

The Magician's Nephew by C S Lewis which filled a 52 Book challenge prompt by being a Prequel.

That was followed by:

Sense and SensibilitySense and Sensibility by Jane Austen
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This is not the edition I read - I have a hardback copy of the complete works of Austen. It is a heavy book and the print is really small. Sense & Sensibility only has 175 pages. But of course that is in comparison to over 400 in the paperback version. It's been on my TBR list for a while but I finally got around to it for the 52 book club prompt #30 - In the Public Domain.

Austen's command of language is extraordinary but it isn't easy to read. The relationships between the characters in the book were complicated. But I loved it. Why not 5 stars? It almost felt like the 3rd sister needn't have been in the book, she played so little a part. And I couldn't wholeheartedly recommend it for reading to everyone - not everyone would appreciate the richness of the vocabulary and Austen's clever observations of people's behaviour.

When I find a good book that's part of a series I tend to continue the series.  For my next book I went back to the first in the David Raker series (The Missing Family book above was #13!)

 Chasing the Dead (Large Print Edition)Chasing the Dead by Tim Weaver
My rating: 3 of 5 stars


It starts out as a sad but hopeless case of mistaken identity. A year after the death of her son Alex, Mary Towne is convinced she's seen him alive - and wants missing persons investigator David Raker to find him. Reluctant at first, but haunted by a loss of his own, Raker eventually agrees.

If I'd read this first I might not have bothered with any subsequent books. It's a good thriller, it kept me turning the pages. But....it's quite scary at times and there is a lot of brutality in it. Cruel brutality. And a main character who seems to develop superhuman strength, fighting his way out of situations when most would have just rolled over and given up.

There was also a twist at the end that didn't really feel credible. It was quite good for a debut novel and the subsequent book in the series I read was much better.

The final book I read in October was the choice for the afternoon Library book club:

The Beginner’s GoodbyeThe Beginner’s Goodbye by Anne Tyler
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Anne Tyler gives us a wise, haunting, and deeply moving new novel in which she explores how a middle-aged man, ripped apart by the death of his wife, is gradually restored by her frequent appearances in their house, on the roadway, in the market.

Crippled in his right arm and leg, Aaron has spent his childhood fending off a sister who wants to manage him. So when he meets Dorothy, a plain, outspoken, independent young woman, she is like a breath of fresh air. Unhesitatingly, he marries her, and they have a relatively happy, unremarkable marriage.

But when a tree crashes into their house and Dorothy is killed, Aaron feels as though he has been erased forever. Only Dorothy's unexpected appearances from the dead help him to live in the moment and to find some peace.

Gradually he discovers, as he works in the family's vanity-publishing business, turning out titles that presume to guide beginners through the trials of life, that maybe for this beginner there is a way of saying goodbye.

A beautiful, subtle exploration of loss and recovery, pierced throughout with Anne Tyler's humour, wisdom, and always penetrating look at human foibles.

I loved this. The main thread running through the book is how Aaron comes to terms with his grief following the death of his wife Dorothy. It moves along at a nice pace and although nothing really exciting happens it wasn’t a chore to read. It was a lovely exploration of their marriage, mainly in hindsight and the grieving process of a husband for a wife.

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Hopefully November will be a good month for reading too.  I'm currently reading Homecoming by Kate Morton.