Thursday, 1 October 2026

Read then Write - 1/10/26


Well considering it is 2 months since I last did one of these posts (30th July) you'd think I would have lots of books to write about. Sadly I only have 4!




I was reading Old Babes in the Wood by Margaret Atwood back then and I really enjoyed it. It's a collection of short stories.

This starts with 3 stories involving Tig and Nell. The first covers the aftermath of an accident at home requiring Tig to drive himself and their daughter to A & E and Nell coming home to a scene of blood and no one home. It moves on to ponder how things have changed while they are undertaking a First Aid course.
Next we read about John and Francois, two very different men who become friends in France and Tig and Nell’s involvement with them. (Renting a house.) And the third story in this initial section details the demise of Nell’s cat Smudgie and her rewriting of Tennyson’s Morte D’Arthur to fit the dead cat scenario. Although it’s actually more about the passing of Tig.

My Evil Mother This story is about a woman and her Mother who may or may not be a witch and their troubled relationship. Coming full circle to the daughter becoming a Mother herself.

The Dead Interview is an account of an interview with the late George Orwell which is very cleverly done and references his works.

Impatient Griselda is about an alien being telling a story to a group of earthlings and contrasting their differences.

Bad Teeth is a about two friends Csilla and Lynne. Csilla is a seasoned liar and insists that Lynne had an affair with a Newman Small who had bad teeth. Csilla couldn’t understand how Lynne could go with someone with such bad teeth. Lynne is convinced the affair did not happen. Which it hadn’t. Csilla just likes to make mischief but despite all that they remain friends.

Death by Clamshell is the narration by Hypatia of Alexandria of her death by clamshells which is quite graphic. It’s portrayed as being told to someone in the present time.

Freeforall Is set in the future when a sexually transmitted disease has swept through the world and people have adapted by keeping uncontaminated women and men apart until a marriage between a couple is arranged so that uncontaminated children can be born and humans continue.
Freeforalls were prisons for affected people. Supplies were dropped in but the inhabitants were left to themselves.

Metempsychosis (or the journey of the soul) This is the story of the soul of a snail coming to inhabit the body of a young woman and the ensuing battle between the two souls to co-exist.

Airborne: A Symposium This is about a meeting of 3 older women who are trying to set up a scheme for empowering more women creatives. Airborne is the name of the book written by one of them. Probably the story I liked least.

Tig and Nell:
A Dusty Lunch
In this story Nell reminisces about Tig’s Father – the Jolly Old Brigadier who served in WW2. Nell is going through his things and comes across poems written while he was away at war.
The poems are poignant and this story resonated with me as my Dad fought in WW2 and he would never talk about it.

Widows – This comprises 2 letters that Nell (now widowed) writes in response to a letter from a friend asking how she is. One is a detailed version of how she really is and what widowhood entails. The second which she will send is a sanitised version and bright and breezy.

Wooden Box – this story is about Nell coming to terms with widowhood and going through things at their cottage.

Old Babes in the wood continues Nell’s journey through grief as she visits the family cabin by a lake with her sister.

I found myself making notes about each of the stories as it was a book group read and I wanted to be able to remember them for when we discussed it. I hadn’t realised that Atwood had written so much, including books for children. The stories of Nell and Tig could easily have been a volume on their own with all the other stories, many of which are truly weird, being a separate volume. Atwood certainly has a vivid and diverse imagination.


The next book I read for the same book group was Half of a Yellow Sun by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie. Not a book I would choose so I did find it a bit of a slog. Adichie is certainly a talented writer and the subject matter - the war in Nigeria when Biafra wanted to become a nation in its own right - was dark. It did give me a better understanding of what went on though. I can remember seeing pictures of the starving Biafran children on TV but I was too young at the time to really understand what was going on. The British Commonwealth has a lot to answer to.


I decided to read something that met a prompt for the 52 Book Club challenge next - Gloria Don't Speak by Lucy Apps.

Gloria has a learning disability. She's nineteen, and there's nothing to do except wander the local parks, look for friendship and keep out of trouble - or go round Jack's. Jack needs Gloria's company, but he's unpredictable and angry at the world. After an act of violence, their friendship has to end. Now Gloria's on her own. But when she hears Jack's out of prison, her whole world is turned upside-down. Heart-breaking and beautiful, Gloria Don't Speak is an insightful portrait of a woman dealing with vulnerability, violence - and the desire for connection.

I didn't really enjoy this one although as I said it ticked the prompt "Author related to another Author" as Lucy is the sister of Peter who wrote "Show me the Bodies" which was about the Grenfell Tower disaster. It was interesting in that it was set in the area where I used to live so many of the places were familiar and Lucy and Peter went to the same schools as my kids but this was definitely no masterpiece in my opinion.


















The final book that I've just finished was Girl Woman Other by Bernadine Evaristo.

Despite there being various links between the characters in this book it felt very disjointed to me. There were a lot of characters to keep track of too, none of which were particularly likeable. The lack of punctuation was also annoying at times. It was shortlisted for the “Women’s Prize for Fiction” in 2020 but I can’t honestly recommend it. It contains a lot of swearing and same sex relationships as well as transgender issues so it definitely wouldn't be to everyone's taste. Again this was a book group read which we will discuss next week.


I did skim a bit of Lessons in Chemistry by Bonnie Garmus as that was the Evening book group's read. I'd read it back in 2023 and loved it. It got a 5 star rating so I was happy to read it again but I didn't find the time to read it completely before our meet up. I'm hoping to find time to watch the TV series of it.



Currently I'm reading Before the Storm by Alex Gray. This is a crime thriller set in Glasgow and is part of a series that I've enjoyed reading in the past. It will tick a prompt for the 52 Book Club Challenge but it's a much easier read than some of the books I've been reading.

Regular readers here will know that I do like a challenge but I'm not sure I'm going to be able to complete the 52 Book Club Challenge this year - I'm quite behind and it's not always possible to slot the Book Group books into prompts. I'll see how far I manage to get but I might take a break from it next year and concentrate on reducing the pile of books by my bed! It's really hard to resist books in the local little libraries that are the sort of books I enjoy and I certainly can't visit any charity shops without coming out with a book or 2 (or maybe more) lol.

Have you read any good books lately? Shh don't tell me or I'll be looking out for those too.

Wednesday, 30 September 2026

Wednesday Hodgepodge - 30/9/26


1. When you think of autumn what sounds come to mind? 

The crunch of leaves underfoot.

2.  Is a trip to the mountains something you enjoy? What's your favorite mountain? 

I probably would but there aren't that many mountains in the UK. 

3. What's something that once felt like a mountain, but is now just a molehill? 

Moving house seemed like a huge thing to do at the time but once I broke it down into to do lists it wasn't as bad as I thought it would be.

4. Let's play this or that-fall foods edition. Yes you have to choose. 
  • pumpkin spice latte or chai latte Neither thank you
  • apple cider or hot chocolate  
  • stew or chili
  • sweet potato casserole or green bean casserole 
  • butternut squash soup or creamy mushroom soup 
  • cranberry sauce or gravy 

5. Sum up your September in a sentence or two. 

We had a birth (a baby girl for our niece and her partner) and a wedding (our nephew Felix and his wife Alexia) but thankfully no funerals.

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

I've never been a coffee drinker and none of the special flavours that come around during the year tempt me.  I'm the same with tea.  I just like an ordinary black tea with milk.  None of the fruit flavours or thing like camomile or earl grey thank you.   Talking of tea, it must be time to put the kettle on!

Joyce provides the Hodgepodge questions each week.  Thank you Joyce.  The link up to other bloggers taking part is here.

Tuesday, 29 September 2026

Don't you hate it when this happens.....29/9/26

Well I've managed 2 blogs in 2 days but in other matters....

I decided it was time I had a go at one of the puzzles I had for my birthday.  Stupidly I didn't check its dimensions.  It doesn't fit on my flat board.  Thankfully I have a bigger mat and I've transferred it.  I'll try and post updates as I progress with it.  It comes with 2 extra activities to be done once the puzzle is completed so I'm intrigued as to what they might be.

And then there was a washing disaster - this was the one that got away!



So now I have an odd sock by the washing machine waiting for the next dark load to be done and an odd sock on top of our dresser as hubby doesn't like odd socks in his drawer.  I probably need to encourage him to be like one of our sons who will quite happily wear odd socks.  Although personally I wouldn't wear odd socks.  How about you?  


Monday, 28 September 2026

A VERY overdue Waffle - 28/9/26

It's been over a month since I've blogged - I didn't even really touch my laptop so I'm also way behind catching up with what's been going on in Blogland so forgive me if I've missed any exciting news or major events wherever you happen to be.

There was a lot going on and I really got out of the blogging habit.

Firstly I've been extra busy with the Foodbank.   On top of my regular Monday evenings, Thursdays and Saturday mornings I've also taken on co-ordinating the drivers for Wednesday evening pick ups.  In theory this shouldn't be too taxing - just a case of making sure there are drivers available and accepting the donations on an app - so all done from home or wherever else I might be.  Until of course a driver drops out and no one volunteers very quickly or a regular driver forgets to confirm that they're ok for collecting.  I do have a back up if I'm busy and so far it's been fairly ok.

On top of all that I've also been going in early on a Tuesday morning while two of the key volunteers have been on holiday.  We're getting big deliveries at the moment from Amazon and it's often a race against the clock to get everything inside and set up before we open the doors to our beneficiaries.  It's meant missing my keep fit class but I have been able to meet up with my friends afterwards for coffee and quite honestly volunteering at the Foodbank is more of a work out lol.

And then the guy who collects the food donated in the crates at our local Tesco had an operation on his eye so I've also done a couple of pick ups from there.  Still I like to be busy!

Prior to all this we had our annual family get together in Kent.  We had between 35 - 45 people there on various days so it's not what I would call a relaxing holiday but it is lovely to spend time with everyone and although we had a couple of spells of rain it was generally good weather all week.

Two weeks ago we travelled to France and Belgium for our nephew's wedding.

My husband's sister lives in Dunkerque and it was her youngest son that was getting married.  Well, having a wedding party - the couple were legally married over a year ago.

We'd booked a hotel for the Friday and Saturday nights in the town where the wedding was to be held - Poperinge in Belgium but we travelled via Dunkerque on the Friday as my SIL had been in Glasgow that week for work and there had been travel disruption with flights and trains so she opted to come in the car with us.  We also took my daughter with us - it was an adult only event so her wife stayed at home with the children.  

It was probably just as well because we ended up helping put up a very large gazebo in SILs garden - without proper instructions!  It took a while.

This was before we attempted to put the canvas on.  At the second attempt we got it on - (first time it was inside out) only to find that the pole arrangement wasn't right.  We needed all the seven people that were there to lift it up and get the legs in place too.  Being octagonal we could really have done with one more person.  And then we later discovered that one of their other sons had the instructions on his phone!  We were not amused lol.

Poperinge is a nice little town near Ypres in Belgium and only about a 40 minute drive from Dunkerque.


Thought I'd try out the new Google widget but I actually took some photos!

The Town Hall

Town Square

Town Hall at night







The town has a big market square with lots of cafes/restaurants around it.  We met up with other family members for coffee in the morning and then it was just a 10 minute walk from our hotel to the venue.

The venue was a guest house that had a large function room and lots of outdoor space.  The ceremony which consisted of speeches by the groom's brothers and the brother of the bride and friends followed by the couple exchanging vows, was held outside.  There was a drinks reception followed by dinner which was a hog roast meal and then of course dancing until late into the night.  The youngsters were still in full flow when we headed back to the hotel around 1 am.

One of the things that made it special for us was that our son Michael  and his wife Elizabeth travelled over from the US to attend the wedding!  They came on the Thursday and although Elizabeth had to travel home on the Monday Michael stayed with us until the following Sunday.  We didn't see much of either of them really because of the wedding and then they were trying to catch up with friends as much as possible but it was lovely to see them both.


Front left is our niece Olivia who took this photo with our daughter Rebecca next to her and then behind are our other son Matthew, his wife Amy, Elizabeth and Michael.

This one is of the bride Alexia, groom Felix and all their English cousins and partners.  There were a few missing but lots of them had made the trip.

This was a photo booth shot of us.

The Happy Couple


On the Sunday many of us travelled home via Dunkerque, including my SILs French relatives (her husband is French and one of 8 like her) so a lot of people.  We were glad of the gazebo as there was a bit of rain during the afternoon but it certainly didn't dampen our spirits.


                                

Last weekend was quiet but this weekend Nick's sister Helen turned 70 on Friday so we were at a party for her at her son's house on Saturday which was nice.  After we got home we got the lovely news that our niece Emma had given birth to a little girl.  We knew she was in labour while we were at the party and were all hoping the baby would come before midnight - Saturday would have been Nick's Mum's 98th birthday if she was still alive.  Well baby Freya did arrive before midnight and Mum and baby are doing well.  Grandma would be so proud.

I think that's a good point to wrap up this very long and overdue post!