Friday, 24 October 2025

Friday's Fave Five - 24/10/25


It's Friday so time to take a pause and look back on the good things from the past week.  Susanne reminds us to do this each week and we link up here.

1)  Sunshine today!  We've had a lot of wind and rain over this past week but today the sun was shining.  Always a lift to the spirits.

2)  An evening out with Hubby last Saturday - we went to a concert with The John Ongom Big Band at the local church which was really good and it was to raise funds for our Foodbank.

3)  My daughter and her family are safely back from their holiday in the United Arab Emirates.  A good friend of theirs and his wife are currently living and working in Abu Dhabi so they visited them and also Dubai.  Not the best place for a gay couple with children to visit but they were celebrating with their friends who recently got married.  Judging by the photos they all had a great time.

4)  I've finally read Sense and Sensibility by Jane Austen.  It's been on my TBR list for a while and now it's done!  It took me a while as I have a hardback copy of the complete works of Austen so it's a big heavy book with very small print - difficult to read in bed.

5)  A brief visit with my son and his family tonight - they are driving to us and staying overnight as they're off on holiday tomorrow.  They're leaving their car here and I will be driving them to Stansted airport in the morning.  

And a bonus - we get an extra hour of sleep on Saturday night as our clocks go back.  Sadly it will be mean it gets dark even earlier! 

Have a good weekend all.

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Thursday, 23 October 2025

A Challenge too Far? 23/10/25


I've blogged in the past about how I'm trying to do the 52 Book Club Challenge again this year.

Well this week I sat down and worked out what I needed to read before the end of the year:

Prompt 5 Plot includes a Heist - Woman on Fire by Lisa Barr currently reserved at the library.

Prompt 18 A Character who can fly - The Flight Girls by Noelle Salazar currently in transit to my library

Prompt 20 A Fairy Tale retelling - The Snow Child by Eowyn Ivey currently in transit to my library

Prompt 27 Features a Magician - The Night Circus by Erin Morgenstern currently in transit to my library

Prompt 30 In the Public Domain - Sense & Sensibility by Jane Austen I'm currently about half way through this

Prompt 31 Audiobook has multiple narrators - Mansfield Park by Jane Austen - I have the complete works so I'll be reading this one.

Prompt 31 Includes a Diary entry - Homecoming by Kate Morton I picked this up from the library yesterday.

6 and 1/2 books by the end of the year sounds doable right?

But there's also:

The Beginner's Goodbye by Anne Tyler and

The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo by Taylor Jenkins Reid 

to be read for the book clubs!  Wish me luck!

(And another library loan to pick up just for fun.)

I'm off to read a bit more of Sense and Sensibility.  I'd forgotten how flowery Austen's writing was.  And it's hard to read in bed as I have the complete works of Austen so it's a big heavy book and the print is small.


Wednesday, 22 October 2025

Wednesday Hodgepodge - 22/10/25


Joyce provides the questions each week (thank you Joyce), we prepare our answers and then we share here.

1. What do you like most about your family?  

Well I have 2 brothers that I'm not particularly close to - there are quite big age gaps between us - so often when I talk about family it's the family I married in to and what I love about them is that I've never been made to feel like an "in-law"  I'm just part of the family, same as anyone else.

2. What's something nice that's happened to you recently? 

Being appreciated.  I had some nice feedback from people about my efforts at the Foodbank.

3. Do you like the colour orange? Besides a pumpkin and an actual orange, what's something orange you love?

It's definitely not my favourite colour.  And I'm not a fan of pumpkin or oranges.  I do have some orange cushions on our sofas which I think complement the brown leather but I don't actually find them comfortable so I never sit with one behind me.

Something I did love recently was the carrot soup I made with the carrots I got from the Foodbank - we had so many carrots, volunteers were encouraged to take some home.



4.  What's something you have now you couldn't have imagined having five years ago? How does that make you feel? What's possible now because of it? 

6 grandchildren!  It feels wonderful. We actually had none at the start of 2017 and had 6 by November 2020.

5. Let's wrap this one up with an October this or that...

  • pumpkin bread or apple cider donut   DONUT
  • cozy sweater or cozy hoodie    HOODIE 
  • apple picking or pumpkin picking  APPLE
  • scary movie or Hallmark movie  HALLMARK
  • hay ride or corn maze  HAY RIDE - I love puzzles but think a maze might get claustrophobic.
  • twinkle lights or candles  BOTH 
  • autumn hike or autumn bonfire HIKE

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

We've had some much needed rain in the last few days but it hasn't put a damper on the start of firework season.  It was Diwali at the weekend so we've had lots of fireworks over the last few nights and of course soon it will be Halloween and then Bonfire night itself.  They don't particularly bother me but I know for people with pets it can be a difficult time.

Sunday, 19 October 2025

Lazing on a Sunday Afternoon - 19/10/25

Yes today has definitely been a lazy day!  I needed one after the last few days.

A big chunk of Thursday was spent at the Foodbank - we had a huge delivery of lots of fresh food in from our regular supplier plus a lot of other items which all had to be taken in and then organised and distributed.  It was hard going as I was the only person in the back storeroom this week.  Then the church had to be cleared of all the food and set up ready for a weekend concert.

Friday I caught up on a lot of household chores and laundry.

Then yesterday I was back at the Foodbank to take in another delivery.  Thankfully my fellow volunteer Sally was there to help with that because this is the picture I took after we'd been sorting the contents of bags for almost an hour.


Every Saturday we get a delivery from people who attend a church in nearby Woodford Wells.  They put a donation bag outside their houses, volunteers collect them and bring them to us.  This week we also had a big collection from a nearby school that had been brought in on Friday to deal with. There were bags everywhere and they needed to be moved as we have to be able to walk through the store room as it's a Fire Exit route.

Sally and I spent about 2 hours opening up all the bags and grouping things together in crates.  Usually we would try and write dates on the items and put them in their proper storage area but there was no way we could do that on Saturday.  I didn't get an after photo as I actually did a video to send to the Manager showing her what we had done.  Most of the things were stored in the green crates you can see in the picture but we had to leave a lot of cereal boxes on the work table.

Hopefully the team that come in on Mondays to set up the Church ready for the Tuesday session of the Foodbank will be able to make some more progress.  It's a good problem to have though.  We're always grateful for donations.

When we'd done as much as we could I made my way round to Tesco's where Hubby was doing our shopping - in my rush to get to the Foodbank in the morning I'd come out without my door keys!

Saturday evening I was back at the Church but this time for entertainment - 


This band have for the last few years done a concert at the Church with proceeds going to the Foodbank.

The band was formed by John Ongom back in 2002.  John was originally from Uganda but came to England to study and stayed.  When he tried to find a band to join he couldn't find what he was looking for so he just set up his own.  Sadly John died in 2018 but the band continues under the musical director Angus Moncrieff who was born in Highams Park.

It was a really good concert and well attended so hopefully it will help our fundraising efforts.  And it was nice to be out with Hubby for the evening.

But all that is why today has been a very lazy, quiet day.  It's also been raining so that was another excuse for not getting out for a walk.

I've read the paper, caught up on some book reviews and last night's episode of Strictly Come Dancing.

Now I'm off to bed to do some reading while Hubby catches up on the weekend's football on TV.  I've just started Sense and Sensibility.  It may take me a while. 


Friday, 17 October 2025

Friday's Fave Five - 17/10/25


Oh my goodness it's Friday already!

Time to look back on the week and find the things we're grateful for.  Thanks to Susanne for hosting the link up for this here.

1)  We had a lovely time with Grandsons Noah and Miles on Saturday - my son and DIL were out for the afternoon with a cousins meet up so we took the boys to feed the ducks and swans and then on to the playground in the park.

We also stopped for ice creams.


We got home and had dinner then when it came to bedtime the boys were happy to tidy up all the toys they'd had out and they went to bed with no fuss.  

2)  Being retired means I can spend time doing this without feeling guilty:


And not a piece missing!

3)  A couple of weeks ago I wrote about us gaining another great nephew - baby Oscar.  Unfortunately he had a few breathing issues when he was first born but I'm happy to report that he's recovered from those and was discharged from hospital on Tuesday.  

4)  I attended the AGM of our local Highams Park Planning Group this week.  This group is the backbone behind so much of what happens in our local area, including keeping us up to date with what's going on and notifying us about planning applications etc.  particularly those which we might want to object to.  It was good to get updates on the renovation works on the cinema site - works have started and although there was a slight glitch things should soon start moving again.  We were also given updates on plans to improve the area around the station.  I'm grateful that we have people very invested in our local community. 

5)  Also grateful for the local schools that have supported the foodbank with their harvest collections.  We've had some really nice donations in the past couple of weeks which are much needed.

And bonus thank yous to everyone who's left me comments on my recent posts and for social media for keeping me in touch with our family members who are not nearby - we had a lovely video this week of Grandson Vinny happily singing an AC/DC song (apparently!) and today we got lovely photos of my daughter and her family who are currently on holiday and look to be having a great time.

Have a good weekend all.


Friday, 10 October 2025

Friday's Fave Five - 10/10/25


Thanks to Susanne as always for reminding us to stop and count our blessings each Friday.  You can find out more here.

1)  A visit from our daughter and her family last Saturday.  We made dinner for them although it wasn't a long visit - both of the grandchildren had things on earlier in the day but it was nice having even a brief visit with them.

2)  Dry weather.  It's been much chillier (our heating has been on a few times this week) but we were able to get out for a couple of walks and haven't yet needed wet weather shoes.

3)  A meet up with the daytime book club on Wednesday.  There were only 4 of us but we had a good discussion about the book we'd been reading (A Single Thread by Tracy Chevalier) and we've picked our next book.

4)  Our flights for our trip to Vermont at Thanksgiving are booked!  Thankful that we are in the position financially to be able to make these trips.

5)  A successful shopping trip today - I braved Westfield in Stratford which is a big shopping/entertainments venue next to the 2012 Olympic Park.  Can't believe it's 13 years since that event.  The area has continued to be developed since the Olympics with a lot of building work still ongoing but the main stadium remains (now used by West Ham United football club), plus the Velodrome and the Swimming centre and the parkland.  It's a busy area but not easy to get to from here on public transport so it means a drive and navigating the car parks.  I make a point of taking a picture of the car park location and remembering where I come out into the shopping area so I can find my car when I'm done!

My son and his family arrived this evening from Nottingham and they will be here until early Sunday afternoon.

Have a good weekend all.


Tuesday, 7 October 2025

Getting back in the swing of things....7/10/25

I'm trying to be more present here but I'm also trying to get back into the routine of walking - the summer, despite being lovely with various trips and visits, has played havoc with my schedule.

Anyway I managed to walk on Sunday on my own and yesterday with Hubby.  Sunday was the first time I'd been around the lake for a while so although I'd read about the fire at the boat house I hadn't seen the aftermath in person.





The fire happened on 24th September and although the fire brigade responded quickly the building was gutted.

You can see in the bottom photo where the area in front of the boat house at the bottom of the lake has been fenced off.  Hopefully it won't remain fenced off for long as a lot of the ducks, coots etc come there to be fed.  I did actually see two people cross the fencing to the right (not shown in my picture) with bags of bird food.  The fencing has fallen down so it's easy to get past it.

Yesterday Hubby and I did what I call the "golf course loop" and we both overdressed - it was really quite warm thanks to the sun. 

Today it's been mostly grey and cloudy but no rain.  I made it to my Keep Fit class and then coffee with friends.  It won't be the highest step count of the week but I do at least feel I've moved!

Hubby rushed back from his exercise class today as he thought he had a blood test booked for today only to find the appointment is tomorrow.  He was not best pleased!

Sunday, 5 October 2025

More on books! - 5/10/25


I only managed to finish 2 books in September:

The Midnight Rose by Lucinda Riley and

Nobody Told Me - by Hollie McNeish.

I normally love a family sage that contains a mystery and is set in different locations and at different times.  Lucinda Riley is usually a good writer of such a saga.

The Midnight Rose follows Anahita’s early life in India and then her time in England where she was educated as the companion of an Indian Princess.  It followed her subsequent move into nursing, during WW1 and her love for Donald, the Lord of Astbury Hall.  Donald’s Mother is a scheming busybody and consequently Donald marries a rich American heiress and Anahita returns to India.

I was enjoying the book but then there is a subject introduced into the book that made no sense to me at all.  It seemed totally unnecessary and wasn’t handled very well at all.

There was also another event mentioned in the epilogue that didn’t ring true to me either.

The story of Anahita and Donald was enough but in trying to add another layer to it I feel Riley went too far.

Nobody Told Me is a very different book but I loved it.

Hollie kept a diary from the start of her pregnancy until her "Little One" reached the age of 3.  But more than just a diary, it's also full of poems.  She really captures the ups and downs of parenthood and manages to convey in words so many of the trials and tribulations and the joys of becoming a Mother.  Great poems but her prose is beautiful too. 

I also started another book in September but I didn't finish it until yesterday:

A Single ThreadA Single Thread by Tracy Chevalier
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

Violet is 38, she is also single having lost her fiancé in WW1.  This books charts her life as she attempts to make a new start in Winchester, away from her domineering Mother.  Life is not easy for her as “a surplus woman” after the war but Violet is determined. 

She signs up for the embroidery group that are making kneelers and cushions for the Cathedral and she also meets Arthur, a bell ringer.  They become friends despite Arthur being married.

I must admit I found this book very slow. It was interesting to learn about the embroidery processes and the details about the Cathedral are clearly well researched. But Violet is a complex character and not particularly endearing.

The book is a good study of how hard it was for a single woman to make her way in the world in the time between the two world wars and also the difficulties of family relationships. But the book did not grab me. The blurb on the book says “when whispers of another world war surface, she must live with a secret that could change everything….” So misleading. I was waiting for something earth shattering to happen but the secret was not dramatic and although it did result in change for Violet and others, it was small.

There was also one part of the storyline that I felt totally unnecessary.

I probably would have only give it 2* were it not for the detailed descriptions of both the embroidery projects and Winchester Cathedral.

It will be interesting to hear what the other members of the book group think of it as it was the afternoon library book club choice.  We're meeting on Wednesday to discuss it.

As always you can see all the books I've read/want to read/reviews etc on my Goodreads page here View all my reviews 

Friday, 3 October 2025

Friday's Fave Five - 3/10/25


Each week Susanne reminds us to look back on the week and find the blessings/things we're grateful for.  You can find out more here.

1) I missed last week because I was here:

Dunkerque!

We spent the weekend at Hubby's sister & brother in law's house with 2 of his other sisters, one with her husband, plus their 2 daughters, one partner and 3 children.  One of the French nephews was also home for the weekend. 

We had a lovely time and although we've been to visit them many times I've never made a point of visiting the memorial for the battle of Dunkerque during WW2.

 


Quite hard imagining my Dad being on that beach waiting to be rescued.  But thankfully he was otherwise I wouldn't be here!

Still can't take a decent selfie though lol.

The picture below is (L-R) Henri (French Nephew) Jean Marie (French BIL) Voldi (BIL) and Ellis who is Voldi's daughter Natalie's partner.  Ellis is so helpful to Voldi and his wife Clare who are both blind.  He and Voldi made their way to Dunkerque on Voldi's tandem.  They cycled from Voldi's home to Stratford International Station and then got a train to Dover.  They then made their way to the ferry port and crossed to Calais.  Henri and Jean Marie met them there and guided them on to Dunkerque.


Anyway we had a lovely weekend, Anne Marie (Hubby's sister) is a great hostess.

Other good things this week:

2)  I got my flu jab on Wednesday.  My arm has been a bit tender but other than that it's all good.  I definitely don't want to get flu!

3)  It was Knit and Natter time on Wednesday evening and despite all the nattering I think we all made a little bit of progress on our WIPs.  This is mine:


It was actually something my daughter started (she made the granny squares) and now I'm trying to make it into a blanket.

4)  There seems to be a glut of carrots at the moment - we had so many at the foodbank that volunteers were encouraged to take some so I made carrot and coriander soup today.

It was delicious and there is a little left for tomorrow and a good sized portion in the freezer.


5.  Today was a productive day.  I was up and ready for the day reasonably early - didn't want to greet the person delivering our shopping in my nightwear lol.  Apart from making the soup I managed to get all the laundry done and hoovered and cleaned all the upstairs floors.  Being retired it's very easy some days to fritter away the day so I'm glad to have a day where I can look back and think I've achieved something.  I also managed to do a bit of tidying up in the front garden during the week - the Christmas tree that came with the house got a good trim.  Hopefully I haven't cut it back too much but it seems pretty healthy.

I'm at the Foodbank in the morning and then we have my daughter and her family coming for dinner.  It will be nice to see the Grandkids as we haven't seen them much recently.

Have a good weekend all.

And a bonus blessing - our hosts for last weekend have just become grandparents.  Their youngest son and his wife are now the proud parents of baby Oscar.

Thursday, 2 October 2025

Perks of being a volunteer - 2/10/25

I was at the Foodbank today as usual for a Thursday.

It was a busy morning - we had training first thing about looking after our own wellbeing which was interesting and useful.  Then we had our usual session.  There seems to be a glut of carrots at the moment.  The deliveries we've had from a local supplier for the last few weeks have contained LOTS of carrots.  More than we can give out even.  

We do liaise with other providers when we have this issue and there is another group that goes to venues on Friday and Saturday who will come and collect excess food from us.

However, as volunteers, we are also allowed to take surplus items home too.  Today I have come home with carrots (we still have loads to give out on Tuesday), a cauliflower and a couple of bread items.

Tomorrow I hope to be making soup!  And yes I've checked what I need and added a few missing things onto my shopping order which is coming in the morning.  Hopefully I'll be all set.

Although I might get started on one of these - bargains picked up on a Facebook local site.


Or try and finish assembling Daughter's granny squares into a blanket.  I've nearly got them all sewn together but then it will need an edging and all the ends will need weaving in.


And then there is still a book to be finished for the daytime book club......

I'm so glad to be retired!

Wednesday, 1 October 2025

Note to self - 1/10/25

Note to self - when planning to use up very ripe bananas by making Banana Bread, make sure you have all the other necessary ingredients.

Today I decided I had to make use of the over ripe bananas I had by making Banana Bread but .....

I only had ginger - no cinnamon.

I didn't have enough butter so I supplemented what I had with butter spread.

It turned out ok though.

Also, when going to the library to return a book try to avoid the "New Books" shelf when you already have books out on loan and a pile of books TBR.  Yes I came home with another book to read but it does tick a 52 book club prompt as it was published in 2025.  (Well the paperback version was so that's good enough for me.)

No picture of the Banana Bread - some has already been eaten and some went home with my daughter for her family.

The book is this one:



Wednesday, 24 September 2025

Wednesday Hodgepodge - 24/9/25


Each week Joyce comes up with a set of questions for the Hodgepodge and we share our posts on her blog here.

1. Fall officially rolls into the Northern Hemisphere on Monday (9/22)...what's your favourite thing about fall?

Well I'm not a great fan of fall - next stop winter which means shorter days and colder weather but I do love watching the trees change colour.

2. What's one thing on your real or proverbial autumn bucket list? 

We're aiming to visit our son and family in the US again for Thanksgiving this year.  That's still technically fall season but there will be a good chance of snow by then.

3. Apples, pumpkins, sweet potatoes, butternut squash and cranberries are some of the top fall foods. Which one is your favourite and how do you like it prepared? Any on the list you don't eat? Which one have you had most recently? 

I love an apple pie or crumble.  We had an apple and rhubarb crumble when we were away with cousins recently.

I'm not a big fan of pumpkin but I'll eat the others.

4. 'Fall is proof that change is beautiful' is a popular sentiment. Would you agree or no? Elaborate. 

Well to a degree.  The changing colours of the trees during fall are beautiful but change can also be difficult, unexpected and unwanted.

5. Is there a spot near you where people go to see the leaves change colour? Will you try to leaf peep somewhere this fall? Lonely Planet lists the following ten places as the best for leaf peeping...of those listed which would you most like to visit? 

Stowe, Vermont~Shenandoah National Park, Virginia~Columbia River Gorge, Oregon~Zion National Park, Utah~Tennessee/North Carolina border~West Virgina~Northwestern Wyoming~Wisconsin Northwoods~Northern Nevada~Ozark Highlands Scenic Byway, Arkansas

Walking through the local forest is about as far as I'll go but of the above list I'd choose Stowe in Vermont as it's close to our family there.

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

Vinny (on the left) turned 5 this week which means we've been in this house 5 years now too.  Time goes too fast!



Saturday, 20 September 2025

Let's Talk Books - 20/9/25


My blog is a bit like buses - nothing for ages then 3 at once!  (Although actually that doesn't happen as much these days as our buses will be instructed to wait at a stop if they are too close to the bus ahead of them!)

Anyway lots of books coming at you now - the last post I did about books was back in May and covered the books I'd read in April.  You can find that here.

I might not be consistent with my blogging but I do keep reading.

This is my current read:


Hollie is an award winning writer and this book follows her journey through pregnancy and the first 3 years of her child "Little One".

It's a very honest account and there are lots of poems in the book which is why I'm using it as the "Told in Verse" prompt of the 52 book club 2025 challenge.   Even though it's a long time since I was pregnant and my children made it to 3 I can still relate to so much of what Hollie has written.  It's funny in places but also poignant and I just love the way it's written. 

These are my next two reads:


These are the picks from the library groups I've joined - we finally seem to be gathering some momentum.  The evening group will be  reading the Rachel Joyce book next and we're meeting up on Thursday to discuss the previous book The Guest List by Lucy Foley.

A Single Thread is the choice of the daytime group and our next meet up is early in October.

I had a nice message earlier today from the facilitator of the groups saying "You are a fab member of the groups.  Thank you for pushing through!!"  Always good to feel appreciated.

Thankfully I can fit both of these to prompts in the 52 book club challenge - Character's Name in the title for one and Read in a -ber month for the other.

I still have a few gaps to fill in the prompts list but I think I'm on track to complete the challenge.

I'm going to list the books I've read since April but if you want to see any reviews you'll need to head to my Goodreads page here.

  1. A Place Called Here - Celia Ahern **
  2. Take my Hand - Dolen Perkins-Valdez *****
  3. A Necessary End - Peter Robinson ***
  4. Secrets - Freya North ****
  5. The Catcher in the Rye - J D Salinger **
  6. The Street Party - Claire Seeber **
  7. Vanessa Bares All - Vanessa Feltz ***
  8. Dead Simple - Peter James ****
  9. The Hanging Valley - Peter Robinson ***
  10. Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow - Gabrielle Zevin *****
  11. The Booklovers Library - Madeline Martin ****
  12. We're Going to need more Wine - Gabrielle Union **
  13. On the Run - Kerry J Donovan ****
  14. Should I tell You - Jill Mansell ***
  15. The People on Platform 5 - Clare Pooley ****
  16. The Guest List - Lucy Foley **
  17. The Great Alone - Hannah Kristen ****
  18. The Midnight Rose - Lucinda Riley **


Where have I been - to the Forest of Dean!

We had a lovely break away in the Forest of Dean a few weeks ago.

This is where we stayed.  About Time Cottage.

There were 8 of us, my cousins Jill, Julie and Pat plus their husbands Simon, Pete and Martin plus me and Hubby.  Oh and Beanie (Jill and Simon's dog.)

The Forest of Dean is near Gloucester which is close to Wales.  In fact our route there took us on the M4 motorway from London, over the Severn Bridge into Wales and then north back into England to the village of Parkend where the cottage is situated.

There is a steam railway that runs between Parkend and the nearby town of Lydney and we could hear the trains running behind the house.


Pete, Me, Nick, Jill, Julie and Martin

As above but with Pat on the right.

Us girls keep in touch on WhatsApp quite regularly but we don't get to meet up in person that often but when we do we just pick up from where we left off.  

We had a wander around Lydney harbour.  We visited a place called Puzzlewood which is a very unique area of the forest and we also did a forest walk that included a sculpture trail.






We didn't do the whole trail as we needed to get back to the cafe before it closed for tea and cake.  We stop frequently for tea and cake!

We had a pub meal out the first evening and then the other two nights we had a very reasonably priced Indian takeaway and then fish and chips from a nearby shop which was also good.

We did a lot of chatting and played games in the evening and it was overall a lovely break.

Friday, 19 September 2025

Friday's Fave Five - 19/9/25


Susanne reminds us each week to look back and find the things we're grateful for and then we link up here.

Well at least that's the plan but I haven't managed to get here for 5 weeks!  So lots to look back on and be grateful for.

1)  A few nights away with 3 of my cousins and all our husbands so 8 of us in total.  This was the week before last and we went to the Forest of Dean which is near Gloucester bordering on Wales.  We had a lovely time.  We don't see each other very often but when we do we just pick up where we left off.  

2)  I'm thankful that my grandkids Nathan and Ella are now settling in to a new school together which is a state school so their parents will no longer have the financial burden of school fees.  Financially and logistically this should be a good move.

3)  I'm thankful that I finally seem to be getting over whatever virus I had last week - it had me coughing and feeling really low.  I even did a Covid test which was negative.

4)  A few nights better sleep.  Last week I couldn't sleep in my bed - as soon as I laid down I'd start coughing so I ended up trying to sleep on our reclining sofa.  It's reasonably comfortable but I didn't sleep well at all.  I think the tiredness contributed to me feeling so unwell.

5)  A nice visit to one of my SILs today.  The weather was warm and sunny so we were able to sit out in her garden.  And I got lots of washing dry.  I put up the autumn picture though as the leaves are already dropping.

Well there we are, short and sweet but I've really not felt like doing much at all this past week or so.  I did manage to finish a jigsaw puzzle but was very cross to find it had not 1 but 4 pieces missing.  It was a charity shop buy so can't really complain.  Can't expect them to check all 1000 pieces are there!

Have a good weekend all.


Sunday, 31 August 2025

A week away - August 2025

It's the end of August so it's that time of year when we get together with Hubby's extended family here:




It's a converted Oast House in Kent and there were over 40 of us sharing. These pictures were before everyone arrived and we decended into chaos lol.

Sound horrendous? Well not to us it doesn't.  Yes we have to share rooms (but there are lots of bathrooms) and some of the kids are on the floors but we love being able to all be together.  The kids love the pool, we played a lot of games on the lawn, took walks to nearby Scotney Castle and generally had a good time.

We all mucked in with preparing food - each family group takes a turn to be responsible for the evening meal - and everyone helps out with clearing etc.  

We play board and card games, do karaoke, and generally just unwind.

I'd like to say I came home rested but with late nights and then early wake up calls from the under 10s sleep time is limited.  But so many memories made.

I didn't get to do a Friday's Fave Five but the word to some it all up this week would have been Family!

I also gained some more books!


My brother-in-law was having a clear out and a few people took a few books but I ended up with the majority.  I've read a few which I will put in local Little Libraries, and there are some that I'll probably pass on that I don't think I'd enjoy but the rest will be added to the "to be read" pile.

It looks horrendous but I recently added quite a lot of them to my Good Reads site and I think in the house there are about 50 books.  There are also about 30 in our garden room but given that I read over 50 books a year I will get through them sooner rather than later.

As long as I don't keep adding to the pile!

Hopefully I'll get around to catching up on blogs later today.  Apologies if I don't manage to leave many comments, I'm getting ready to spend a few days away later this week with 3 of my cousins and their husbands.  Organising food etc for 8 will seem easy compared to last week!