Tuesday, 11 November 2025

November Gratitude Log - 11/11/25


Today I'm grateful for a mission accomplished.

I needed to get a birthday present for Granddaughter Ella.  This required driving to Westfield, a huge Mall not too far from us.  I try and avoid going there too often.  It's always busy, the car parks are a challenge and I often do not find it a pleasurable experience.

Anyway today went smoothly.  The traffic wasn't too bad.  I found a parking space ok and Hubby and I headed to John Lewis a department store.

We found the perfect dress for Ella,


Hopefully she will agree but we also got her a couple of Lego sets.  She is starting to enjoy Lego and she loves a unicorn plus Gabby from Gabby's Dolls House so I'm sure the Lego sets will meet with her approval.  We even found a Granddaughter card with a unicorn on and the shop sold numbers so we got a 5 to go on the card.  Can't believe she's going to be 5!

Mission accomplished we decided to quit while we were ahead and made our way home.


Monday, 10 November 2025

November Gratitude Log - 10/11/25


My daughter has a new addition to her family - meet Milo.


Milo is very cute.  He's a Ragdoll cat and is 14 weeks old.  He is going to be a big cat.

Today I'm grateful that I was able to babysit Ella for a short time after school but also that I was able to cope with Milo.  I'll spare everyone the details but the litter tray featured in the situation! 😹

Sunday, 9 November 2025

November Gratitude Log - 9/11/25


Today I'm grateful for a quiet start to the day.  I was first up and I made myself a cup of tea which I had with a couple of biscuits while I caught up with updating book reviews and reading the newspaper.  

Plus watching the parakeets squabbling over the bird feeders - we have a lot of parakeets in our area and there were lots trying to get food this morning.  The local squirrel was also doing his usual contortion of hanging upside down while prising out sunflower seeds from the low hanging feeder.

I love being up first and enjoying my first cup of tea when the house is quiet and the birds are busy.

Saturday, 8 November 2025

November Gratitude Log - 8/11/25


Day 8 and today I'm grateful for the volunteers that collect the donations from the parishioners of another local church and bring them to our Foodbank each Saturday and also for the ones that collect the items that are placed in the donation crate at our local Tesco supermarket.  We are very fortunate to have a big group of volunteers, in various capacities that help with the running of the Foodbank - it's not just about giving out the food each week.

And to all the members of the public that put tokens into the charity box at Tesco.  We collected the most tokens last month and will receive £1500 from Tesco.  Makes a huge difference!


Friday, 7 November 2025

Friday's Fave Five - 7/11/25


Friday's is the day to look back on the previous week and find the good things.  Susanne reminds us to do this each week and provides a link up space here.  Thank you Susanne.

Well I have been trying to keep a gratitude log this month - inspired by Linda who blogs here so that ties in nicely with the Friday's Fave Five.

1)  Yesterday I briefly mentioned being grateful for the lovely community here in Highams Park where I live.  We had been to a Quiz Night combined with a wine tasting event organised by the owner of our local wine bar but held in the church where we run the Food Bank with proceeds going to the Food Bank.  It was a great event and it was sold out.  The Church was FULL.  It was a really fun event - we had 3 wines to taste with questions on them - most of our answers were probably guesses lol.  Plus there was a trivia round and a music round.  I went with my Hubby, 3 other volunteers and one of their friends and I think we all had a good time. I certainly did.  It was lovely to see so many people supporting The Hub.

2)  Time with my son and his family last weekend.  It was quite brief - I collected them from the airport after their holiday at around 6.30 pm so by the time we got back it was time for the grandkids to go to bed and my son and DIL didn't stay up too late either but we had some time with them on Sunday before they headed off for home and to collect their dog from kennels.

3)  A Knit and Natter session on Wednesday.  My WIP (which is actually finishing my daughter's project) is almost done.  I'm working on a border and then there are just the ends to sew in.  JUST the ends lol. (Crafters will understand.)

4)  Progress on an extended family matter.  I spent the day on Wednesday with 2 of my SILs which was nice and we did make some progress.  Still a long way to go but every little helps.

5)  A supportive Hubby.  He usually cooks breakfast most days and the main meal and is happy to work around our timetables which is a great help to me and when I was out on Wednesday he cut the grass and cleared up leaves in the garden - without needing a reminder lol.

Have a good weekend all.

November Gratitude Log - 6/11/25


Inspired by Linda who blogs here I'm trying to keep a gratitude log during November.

Well this is a day late but yesterday I was glad of the wonderful community we have here in Highams Park.  I'll elaborate more in my Friday's Fave Five post.


Wednesday, 5 November 2025

Wednesday Hodgepodge - 5/11/25


Joyce provides these questions each week and we write down our answers and then we link up here.
Why not join in the fun?

1. Besides Thanksgiving, something on your November calendar you're looking forward to? 

We're going to a Quiz night tomorrow night, sponsored by our local wine bar in aid of the Foodbank so there will be wine tasting involved to.  Looks like a fun evening.

2. Dictionary.com's word of the year is '6-7'. Huh? 

Is it even a word??? I had to consult the internet to find out it's meaning because apparently I'm old and this particular slang is not part of my vocabulary. Is it part of yours? According to the article I read, it's a viral term, more of an inside joke with an unclear meaning driven by social media.

Definitely not part of my vocabulary.  I hadn't even heard of it.

What do you think? 

Dictionary. com says it's selection each year is a 'linguistic time capsule reflecting social trends and events, but they also admitted to being confused by '6-7'. Some say it means so-so and is sometimes accompanied by the up and down hand motion we associate with the phrase so-so.

Well I suppose we might say I'm at "sixes and sevens" but of course that means confused or in a bit of a mess, definitely nothing to do with so-so.  And I would have thought 5-6 would be a better number equivalent for s0-s0.

What word do you think would have made a better choice? 

I have absolutely no idea lol.

3. What's a food, trend, activity, or thing people love but you think is just so-so? 

Well having spotted the next question I'm going with Bubble Tea although to be honest I've never tried it and I'd probably rate it as a no-no rather than so-so.

4. Are you a tea drinker? Hot or cold? How do you like yours and at what time of day? Do you like flavoured teas or teas billed as calming, energizing, healing, etc? 

I am definitely a tea drinker but ordinary tea which has to be hot.  (Although my cups often get cold before I finish them.)  I like it at any time of the day but I have to have one first thing in the morning or else I'm like this.


  • I'm not a fan of flavoured or calming teas.  They are a whole different type of drink as far as I'm concerned.  My only concession is to decaffeinated tea after around 3pm in the afternoon so that I'm not kept awake at night.

5. The November Hodgepodge has always included a weekly gratitude question. Here's the question for today-what are three things that make your heart sing? 

  • Catching up with the Grandkids, especially the ones that live further away.
  • Taking a walk around the lake or through the forest.
  • Losing myself in a good book.

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

Well I'm trying to make a note of something I'm grateful for each day in November so today I'm grateful to Joyce and all the other bloggers that post memes like this that keep the blogging world turning.

Thank you.

Tuesday, 4 November 2025

November Gratitude Log - 4/11/25


Today I'm grateful for our window cleaner Quinn.  

When we first moved here I kept my eye out for a window cleaner but it was quite a while before I spotted one cleaning the windows of a neighbour across the road.  I think his name was Tony.

Anyway I approached him and he agreed to add us to his round.  He cleaned the windows and said he'd be back in about a month.  Great I thought.

Except he wasn't back within a month, or two, or even three.  I can't remember how long the gap was before I spotted him again, cleaning our neighbours windows.  I was prepared to give him another chance so I waited to hear him cleaning our windows, but he didn't.  Next time I looked out there was no sign of him.  He'd vanished, again.

Some time later I spotted another window cleaner cleaning a different neighbours windows so I approached him - Quinn and he cleaned our windows, front and back, for a reasonable price and said he'd be around each month.  

I didn't hold my breath but he has been roughly once a month ever since.  He uses a water spraying system which means he doesn't use ladders.  It's probably not such a thorough method but at least I'm not going to find him lying on the ground having fallen from a ladder. 

Well Quinn was here today so my windows are clean and I'm grateful.

Monday, 3 November 2025

November Gratitude Log - 3/11/25


Inspired by
 Linda who blogs here I'm trying to keep a gratitude log during November.

Today I'm grateful for my DIL Vicky - it was her birthday today and my daughter and Vicky recently celebrated their 10th wedding anniversary.  


Sunday, 2 November 2025

October's Reads - 2/11/25


Well we're into November so time to look at what I read in October.  

I managed 6 books which was a huge improvement from the 2 of the previous month.

First off was:

The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry (Harold Fry, #1)The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry by Rachel Joyce
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Recently retired, sweet, emotionally numb Harold Fry is jolted out of his passivity by a letter from Queenie Hennessy, an old friend, who he hasn't heard from in twenty years. She has written to say she is in hospice and wanted to say goodbye. Leaving his tense, bitter wife Maureen to her chores, Harold intends a quick walk to the corner mailbox to post his reply but instead, inspired by a chance encounter, he becomes convinced he must deliver his message in person to Queenie—who is 600 miles away—because as long as he keeps walking, Harold believes that Queenie will not die.

So without hiking boots, rain gear, map or cell phone, one of the most endearing characters in current fiction begins his unlikely pilgrimage across the English countryside. Along the way, strangers stir up memories—flashbacks, often painful, from when his marriage was filled with promise and then not, of his inadequacy as a father, and of his shortcomings as a husband.

Ironically, his wife Maureen, shocked by her husband's sudden absence, begins to long for his presence. Is it possible for Harold and Maureen to bridge the distance between them? And will Queenie be alive to see Harold arrive at her door?


I really enjoyed this book. It's definitely a feel good book although there are some very sad bits in it too. It seemed such a mad thing for Harold to do, set off to walk from his home to visit his dying friend Queenie in a hospice in Berwick upon Tweed - 600 miles away.

That's where I think the book falls down a bit and why I couldn't give it 5* - I'm not sure that Harold could actually have done the walk with his lack of preparation. But I did enjoy how the time walking gave Harold the chance to reflect on his life and there were a few unexpected moments. And of course I wanted to know if he would make it and if Queenie would still be alive.

Next up was:

The Missing Family (David Raker, #13)The Missing Family by Tim Weaver
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

One family...
On a beautiful summer's day, at a remote lake in the middle of Dartmoor, three members of the Fowler family take a dinghy out onto the water, leaving mother Sarah at the shore.

Less than sixty seconds later, she checks to see where they are. The boat is drifting in the middle of the lake. It's empty.  Sarah's family have completely vanished.

One killer...
At the Skyline Casino in London, the security team have just made a headline-grabbing they've spotted and detained a man suspected of murdering a high roller.
After locking him in one of their holding cells, the team station themselves outside and wait for the police. But when the cops arrive, they find something impossible.
The killer is no longer inside the cell.

Two detectives...
David Raker is an expert at solving missing persons puzzles - but these mysteries are unlike anything he's ever seen.
As he digs into the Fowler's, his long-time ally - ex-detective, Colm Healy - tries to get to the bottom of what happened at the casino.

But the men are in danger. Because, buried in the shadows of both cases, is a deadly secret that was never meant to come out...

I did not want to put this book down - had me gripped right from the start. How does a family disappear from the middle of a lake in sixty seconds? How does a man locked in a cell disappear?

Two questions that investigator David Raker is tasked with finding the answers to, which lead to a complicated, multi-layered storyline that moves between past and present and the UK and USA.

Fast moving and with lots of twists and turns I was reading late into the night.

I needed some light relief after that one so I read:

The Magician's Nephew by C S Lewis which filled a 52 Book challenge prompt by being a Prequel.

That was followed by:

Sense and SensibilitySense and Sensibility by Jane Austen
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This is not the edition I read - I have a hardback copy of the complete works of Austen. It is a heavy book and the print is really small. Sense & Sensibility only has 175 pages. But of course that is in comparison to over 400 in the paperback version. It's been on my TBR list for a while but I finally got around to it for the 52 book club prompt #30 - In the Public Domain.

Austen's command of language is extraordinary but it isn't easy to read. The relationships between the characters in the book were complicated. But I loved it. Why not 5 stars? It almost felt like the 3rd sister needn't have been in the book, she played so little a part. And I couldn't wholeheartedly recommend it for reading to everyone - not everyone would appreciate the richness of the vocabulary and Austen's clever observations of people's behaviour.

When I find a good book that's part of a series I tend to continue the series.  For my next book I went back to the first in the David Raker series (The Missing Family book above was #13!)

 Chasing the Dead (Large Print Edition)Chasing the Dead by Tim Weaver
My rating: 3 of 5 stars


It starts out as a sad but hopeless case of mistaken identity. A year after the death of her son Alex, Mary Towne is convinced she's seen him alive - and wants missing persons investigator David Raker to find him. Reluctant at first, but haunted by a loss of his own, Raker eventually agrees.

If I'd read this first I might not have bothered with any subsequent books. It's a good thriller, it kept me turning the pages. But....it's quite scary at times and there is a lot of brutality in it. Cruel brutality. And a main character who seems to develop superhuman strength, fighting his way out of situations when most would have just rolled over and given up.

There was also a twist at the end that didn't really feel credible. It was quite good for a debut novel and the subsequent book in the series I read was much better.

The final book I read in October was the choice for the afternoon Library book club:

The Beginner’s GoodbyeThe Beginner’s Goodbye by Anne Tyler
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Anne Tyler gives us a wise, haunting, and deeply moving new novel in which she explores how a middle-aged man, ripped apart by the death of his wife, is gradually restored by her frequent appearances in their house, on the roadway, in the market.

Crippled in his right arm and leg, Aaron has spent his childhood fending off a sister who wants to manage him. So when he meets Dorothy, a plain, outspoken, independent young woman, she is like a breath of fresh air. Unhesitatingly, he marries her, and they have a relatively happy, unremarkable marriage.

But when a tree crashes into their house and Dorothy is killed, Aaron feels as though he has been erased forever. Only Dorothy's unexpected appearances from the dead help him to live in the moment and to find some peace.

Gradually he discovers, as he works in the family's vanity-publishing business, turning out titles that presume to guide beginners through the trials of life, that maybe for this beginner there is a way of saying goodbye.

A beautiful, subtle exploration of loss and recovery, pierced throughout with Anne Tyler's humour, wisdom, and always penetrating look at human foibles.

I loved this. The main thread running through the book is how Aaron comes to terms with his grief following the death of his wife Dorothy. It moves along at a nice pace and although nothing really exciting happens it wasn’t a chore to read. It was a lovely exploration of their marriage, mainly in hindsight and the grieving process of a husband for a wife.

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Hopefully November will be a good month for reading too.  I'm currently reading Homecoming by Kate Morton.


November's gratitude log, Days 1 & 2.


Well this is an idea I've copied from Linda who blogs here.

I'm a day late but here goes:

Yesterday I was grateful to be able to collect my son and his family from the airport after their holiday.  It was lovely to see the grandkids and they had all had a great time away.

Today I'm grateful for pushing myself to get out for a walk.  It's wellington boot time again for walking around the lake as we've had a lot of rain this past week.  I think I might need to invest in some ear muffs too.  It didn't feel cold enough for a hat but my ears were really cold!

I'm also grateful that we can afford to buy things like bird food.  There were a lot of birds on the lake today - we seem to have gained a flock of Canada Geese since I was last there.  All the birds were hungry so it was good to be able to give them food.

Friday, 31 October 2025

Friday's Fave Five 31/10/25


Thanks to Susanne who reminds us each week to look back and find the things we need to be thankful for.  Join in here.

1)  Dinner at our daughter's last Sunday.  It was the first time we'd seen all of them since they got back from their holiday so it was good to catch up with them and spend time with the Grandkids.

2)  1:1 time with Grandson Nathan on Monday and thankfully the weather was dry so a lot of time was spent playing football in the garden which he loves.  Certainly got a good step count that day!

3)  A long overdue catch up with a couple of friends on Wednesday.  We met up for lunch and spent several hours catching up on each others' lives. 

4)  1:1 time with Granddaughter Ella today.  We played a lot of games - according to the rules of Ella.  Who knew that the object of Kerplunk was to get as many balls as possible?  Or that the Junior version of UNO was more like Snap?  And thankfully I managed to wangle a game of Snakes and Ladders so that Ella won.  It's hard to lose games when you're 4, especially when you're a bit of a collector so don't like giving things up.

5)  Support for our Foodbank.  The local wine bar is hosting a quiz for us next week and it's sold out so hopefully that will be a nice cash injection for it.  Plus our local Waitrose supermarket has the Foodbank as one of their 3 local causes up for a reward.  We might not gain anything from that but it will be nice if we do.

Also grateful for a Hubby that agreed to go Trick or Treating with our Grandson - something out of my comfort zone and the great photo log my DIL has done on Instagram of their trip to Norway, Denmark and Germany this week - the Grandkids have clearly had a great time!

And meals in the freezer when we haven't been shopping!

Have a good weekend all.


Friday, 24 October 2025

Friday's Fave Five - 24/10/25


It's Friday so time to take a pause and look back on the good things from the past week.  Susanne reminds us to do this each week and we link up here.

1)  Sunshine today!  We've had a lot of wind and rain over this past week but today the sun was shining.  Always a lift to the spirits.

2)  An evening out with Hubby last Saturday - we went to a concert with The John Ongom Big Band at the local church which was really good and it was to raise funds for our Foodbank.

3)  My daughter and her family are safely back from their holiday in the United Arab Emirates.  A good friend of theirs and his wife are currently living and working in Abu Dhabi so they visited them and also Dubai.  Not the best place for a gay couple with children to visit but they were celebrating with their friends who recently got married.  Judging by the photos they all had a great time.

4)  I've finally read Sense and Sensibility by Jane Austen.  It's been on my TBR list for a while and now it's done!  It took me a while as I have a hardback copy of the complete works of Austen so it's a big heavy book with very small print - difficult to read in bed.

5)  A brief visit with my son and his family tonight - they are driving to us and staying overnight as they're off on holiday tomorrow.  They're leaving their car here and I will be driving them to Stansted airport in the morning.  

And a bonus - we get an extra hour of sleep on Saturday night as our clocks go back.  Sadly it will be mean it gets dark even earlier! 

Have a good weekend all.

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Thursday, 23 October 2025

A Challenge too Far? 23/10/25


I've blogged in the past about how I'm trying to do the 52 Book Club Challenge again this year.

Well this week I sat down and worked out what I needed to read before the end of the year:

Prompt 5 Plot includes a Heist - Woman on Fire by Lisa Barr currently reserved at the library.

Prompt 18 A Character who can fly - The Flight Girls by Noelle Salazar currently in transit to my library

Prompt 20 A Fairy Tale retelling - The Snow Child by Eowyn Ivey currently in transit to my library

Prompt 27 Features a Magician - The Night Circus by Erin Morgenstern currently in transit to my library

Prompt 30 In the Public Domain - Sense & Sensibility by Jane Austen I'm currently about half way through this

Prompt 31 Audiobook has multiple narrators - Mansfield Park by Jane Austen - I have the complete works so I'll be reading this one.

Prompt 31 Includes a Diary entry - Homecoming by Kate Morton I picked this up from the library yesterday.

6 and 1/2 books by the end of the year sounds doable right?

But there's also:

The Beginner's Goodbye by Anne Tyler and

The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo by Taylor Jenkins Reid 

to be read for the book clubs!  Wish me luck!

(And another library loan to pick up just for fun.)

I'm off to read a bit more of Sense and Sensibility.  I'd forgotten how flowery Austen's writing was.  And it's hard to read in bed as I have the complete works of Austen so it's a big heavy book and the print is small.


Wednesday, 22 October 2025

Wednesday Hodgepodge - 22/10/25


Joyce provides the questions each week (thank you Joyce), we prepare our answers and then we share here.

1. What do you like most about your family?  

Well I have 2 brothers that I'm not particularly close to - there are quite big age gaps between us - so often when I talk about family it's the family I married in to and what I love about them is that I've never been made to feel like an "in-law"  I'm just part of the family, same as anyone else.

2. What's something nice that's happened to you recently? 

Being appreciated.  I had some nice feedback from people about my efforts at the Foodbank.

3. Do you like the colour orange? Besides a pumpkin and an actual orange, what's something orange you love?

It's definitely not my favourite colour.  And I'm not a fan of pumpkin or oranges.  I do have some orange cushions on our sofas which I think complement the brown leather but I don't actually find them comfortable so I never sit with one behind me.

Something I did love recently was the carrot soup I made with the carrots I got from the Foodbank - we had so many carrots, volunteers were encouraged to take some home.



4.  What's something you have now you couldn't have imagined having five years ago? How does that make you feel? What's possible now because of it? 

6 grandchildren!  It feels wonderful. We actually had none at the start of 2017 and had 6 by November 2020.

5. Let's wrap this one up with an October this or that...

  • pumpkin bread or apple cider donut   DONUT
  • cozy sweater or cozy hoodie    HOODIE 
  • apple picking or pumpkin picking  APPLE
  • scary movie or Hallmark movie  HALLMARK
  • hay ride or corn maze  HAY RIDE - I love puzzles but think a maze might get claustrophobic.
  • twinkle lights or candles  BOTH 
  • autumn hike or autumn bonfire HIKE

6. Insert your own random thought here. 

We've had some much needed rain in the last few days but it hasn't put a damper on the start of firework season.  It was Diwali at the weekend so we've had lots of fireworks over the last few nights and of course soon it will be Halloween and then Bonfire night itself.  They don't particularly bother me but I know for people with pets it can be a difficult time.

Sunday, 19 October 2025

Lazing on a Sunday Afternoon - 19/10/25

Yes today has definitely been a lazy day!  I needed one after the last few days.

A big chunk of Thursday was spent at the Foodbank - we had a huge delivery of lots of fresh food in from our regular supplier plus a lot of other items which all had to be taken in and then organised and distributed.  It was hard going as I was the only person in the back storeroom this week.  Then the church had to be cleared of all the food and set up ready for a weekend concert.

Friday I caught up on a lot of household chores and laundry.

Then yesterday I was back at the Foodbank to take in another delivery.  Thankfully my fellow volunteer Sally was there to help with that because this is the picture I took after we'd been sorting the contents of bags for almost an hour.


Every Saturday we get a delivery from people who attend a church in nearby Woodford Wells.  They put a donation bag outside their houses, volunteers collect them and bring them to us.  This week we also had a big collection from a nearby school that had been brought in on Friday to deal with. There were bags everywhere and they needed to be moved as we have to be able to walk through the store room as it's a Fire Exit route.

Sally and I spent about 2 hours opening up all the bags and grouping things together in crates.  Usually we would try and write dates on the items and put them in their proper storage area but there was no way we could do that on Saturday.  I didn't get an after photo as I actually did a video to send to the Manager showing her what we had done.  Most of the things were stored in the green crates you can see in the picture but we had to leave a lot of cereal boxes on the work table.

Hopefully the team that come in on Mondays to set up the Church ready for the Tuesday session of the Foodbank will be able to make some more progress.  It's a good problem to have though.  We're always grateful for donations.

When we'd done as much as we could I made my way round to Tesco's where Hubby was doing our shopping - in my rush to get to the Foodbank in the morning I'd come out without my door keys!

Saturday evening I was back at the Church but this time for entertainment - 


This band have for the last few years done a concert at the Church with proceeds going to the Foodbank.

The band was formed by John Ongom back in 2002.  John was originally from Uganda but came to England to study and stayed.  When he tried to find a band to join he couldn't find what he was looking for so he just set up his own.  Sadly John died in 2018 but the band continues under the musical director Angus Moncrieff who was born in Highams Park.

It was a really good concert and well attended so hopefully it will help our fundraising efforts.  And it was nice to be out with Hubby for the evening.

But all that is why today has been a very lazy, quiet day.  It's also been raining so that was another excuse for not getting out for a walk.

I've read the paper, caught up on some book reviews and last night's episode of Strictly Come Dancing.

Now I'm off to bed to do some reading while Hubby catches up on the weekend's football on TV.  I've just started Sense and Sensibility.  It may take me a while. 


Friday, 17 October 2025

Friday's Fave Five - 17/10/25


Oh my goodness it's Friday already!

Time to look back on the week and find the things we're grateful for.  Thanks to Susanne for hosting the link up for this here.

1)  We had a lovely time with Grandsons Noah and Miles on Saturday - my son and DIL were out for the afternoon with a cousins meet up so we took the boys to feed the ducks and swans and then on to the playground in the park.

We also stopped for ice creams.


We got home and had dinner then when it came to bedtime the boys were happy to tidy up all the toys they'd had out and they went to bed with no fuss.  

2)  Being retired means I can spend time doing this without feeling guilty:


And not a piece missing!

3)  A couple of weeks ago I wrote about us gaining another great nephew - baby Oscar.  Unfortunately he had a few breathing issues when he was first born but I'm happy to report that he's recovered from those and was discharged from hospital on Tuesday.  

4)  I attended the AGM of our local Highams Park Planning Group this week.  This group is the backbone behind so much of what happens in our local area, including keeping us up to date with what's going on and notifying us about planning applications etc.  particularly those which we might want to object to.  It was good to get updates on the renovation works on the cinema site - works have started and although there was a slight glitch things should soon start moving again.  We were also given updates on plans to improve the area around the station.  I'm grateful that we have people very invested in our local community. 

5)  Also grateful for the local schools that have supported the foodbank with their harvest collections.  We've had some really nice donations in the past couple of weeks which are much needed.

And bonus thank yous to everyone who's left me comments on my recent posts and for social media for keeping me in touch with our family members who are not nearby - we had a lovely video this week of Grandson Vinny happily singing an AC/DC song (apparently!) and today we got lovely photos of my daughter and her family who are currently on holiday and look to be having a great time.

Have a good weekend all.


Friday, 10 October 2025

Friday's Fave Five - 10/10/25


Thanks to Susanne as always for reminding us to stop and count our blessings each Friday.  You can find out more here.

1)  A visit from our daughter and her family last Saturday.  We made dinner for them although it wasn't a long visit - both of the grandchildren had things on earlier in the day but it was nice having even a brief visit with them.

2)  Dry weather.  It's been much chillier (our heating has been on a few times this week) but we were able to get out for a couple of walks and haven't yet needed wet weather shoes.

3)  A meet up with the daytime book club on Wednesday.  There were only 4 of us but we had a good discussion about the book we'd been reading (A Single Thread by Tracy Chevalier) and we've picked our next book.

4)  Our flights for our trip to Vermont at Thanksgiving are booked!  Thankful that we are in the position financially to be able to make these trips.

5)  A successful shopping trip today - I braved Westfield in Stratford which is a big shopping/entertainments venue next to the 2012 Olympic Park.  Can't believe it's 13 years since that event.  The area has continued to be developed since the Olympics with a lot of building work still ongoing but the main stadium remains (now used by West Ham United football club), plus the Velodrome and the Swimming centre and the parkland.  It's a busy area but not easy to get to from here on public transport so it means a drive and navigating the car parks.  I make a point of taking a picture of the car park location and remembering where I come out into the shopping area so I can find my car when I'm done!

My son and his family arrived this evening from Nottingham and they will be here until early Sunday afternoon.

Have a good weekend all.


Tuesday, 7 October 2025

Getting back in the swing of things....7/10/25

I'm trying to be more present here but I'm also trying to get back into the routine of walking - the summer, despite being lovely with various trips and visits, has played havoc with my schedule.

Anyway I managed to walk on Sunday on my own and yesterday with Hubby.  Sunday was the first time I'd been around the lake for a while so although I'd read about the fire at the boat house I hadn't seen the aftermath in person.





The fire happened on 24th September and although the fire brigade responded quickly the building was gutted.

You can see in the bottom photo where the area in front of the boat house at the bottom of the lake has been fenced off.  Hopefully it won't remain fenced off for long as a lot of the ducks, coots etc come there to be fed.  I did actually see two people cross the fencing to the right (not shown in my picture) with bags of bird food.  The fencing has fallen down so it's easy to get past it.

Yesterday Hubby and I did what I call the "golf course loop" and we both overdressed - it was really quite warm thanks to the sun. 

Today it's been mostly grey and cloudy but no rain.  I made it to my Keep Fit class and then coffee with friends.  It won't be the highest step count of the week but I do at least feel I've moved!

Hubby rushed back from his exercise class today as he thought he had a blood test booked for today only to find the appointment is tomorrow.  He was not best pleased!

Sunday, 5 October 2025

More on books! - 5/10/25


I only managed to finish 2 books in September:

The Midnight Rose by Lucinda Riley and

Nobody Told Me - by Hollie McNeish.

I normally love a family sage that contains a mystery and is set in different locations and at different times.  Lucinda Riley is usually a good writer of such a saga.

The Midnight Rose follows Anahita’s early life in India and then her time in England where she was educated as the companion of an Indian Princess.  It followed her subsequent move into nursing, during WW1 and her love for Donald, the Lord of Astbury Hall.  Donald’s Mother is a scheming busybody and consequently Donald marries a rich American heiress and Anahita returns to India.

I was enjoying the book but then there is a subject introduced into the book that made no sense to me at all.  It seemed totally unnecessary and wasn’t handled very well at all.

There was also another event mentioned in the epilogue that didn’t ring true to me either.

The story of Anahita and Donald was enough but in trying to add another layer to it I feel Riley went too far.

Nobody Told Me is a very different book but I loved it.

Hollie kept a diary from the start of her pregnancy until her "Little One" reached the age of 3.  But more than just a diary, it's also full of poems.  She really captures the ups and downs of parenthood and manages to convey in words so many of the trials and tribulations and the joys of becoming a Mother.  Great poems but her prose is beautiful too. 

I also started another book in September but I didn't finish it until yesterday:

A Single ThreadA Single Thread by Tracy Chevalier
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

Violet is 38, she is also single having lost her fiancé in WW1.  This books charts her life as she attempts to make a new start in Winchester, away from her domineering Mother.  Life is not easy for her as “a surplus woman” after the war but Violet is determined. 

She signs up for the embroidery group that are making kneelers and cushions for the Cathedral and she also meets Arthur, a bell ringer.  They become friends despite Arthur being married.

I must admit I found this book very slow. It was interesting to learn about the embroidery processes and the details about the Cathedral are clearly well researched. But Violet is a complex character and not particularly endearing.

The book is a good study of how hard it was for a single woman to make her way in the world in the time between the two world wars and also the difficulties of family relationships. But the book did not grab me. The blurb on the book says “when whispers of another world war surface, she must live with a secret that could change everything….” So misleading. I was waiting for something earth shattering to happen but the secret was not dramatic and although it did result in change for Violet and others, it was small.

There was also one part of the storyline that I felt totally unnecessary.

I probably would have only give it 2* were it not for the detailed descriptions of both the embroidery projects and Winchester Cathedral.

It will be interesting to hear what the other members of the book group think of it as it was the afternoon library book club choice.  We're meeting on Wednesday to discuss it.

As always you can see all the books I've read/want to read/reviews etc on my Goodreads page here View all my reviews 

Friday, 3 October 2025

Friday's Fave Five - 3/10/25


Each week Susanne reminds us to look back on the week and find the blessings/things we're grateful for.  You can find out more here.

1) I missed last week because I was here:

Dunkerque!

We spent the weekend at Hubby's sister & brother in law's house with 2 of his other sisters, one with her husband, plus their 2 daughters, one partner and 3 children.  One of the French nephews was also home for the weekend. 

We had a lovely time and although we've been to visit them many times I've never made a point of visiting the memorial for the battle of Dunkerque during WW2.

 


Quite hard imagining my Dad being on that beach waiting to be rescued.  But thankfully he was otherwise I wouldn't be here!

Still can't take a decent selfie though lol.

The picture below is (L-R) Henri (French Nephew) Jean Marie (French BIL) Voldi (BIL) and Ellis who is Voldi's daughter Natalie's partner.  Ellis is so helpful to Voldi and his wife Clare who are both blind.  He and Voldi made their way to Dunkerque on Voldi's tandem.  They cycled from Voldi's home to Stratford International Station and then got a train to Dover.  They then made their way to the ferry port and crossed to Calais.  Henri and Jean Marie met them there and guided them on to Dunkerque.


Anyway we had a lovely weekend, Anne Marie (Hubby's sister) is a great hostess.

Other good things this week:

2)  I got my flu jab on Wednesday.  My arm has been a bit tender but other than that it's all good.  I definitely don't want to get flu!

3)  It was Knit and Natter time on Wednesday evening and despite all the nattering I think we all made a little bit of progress on our WIPs.  This is mine:


It was actually something my daughter started (she made the granny squares) and now I'm trying to make it into a blanket.

4)  There seems to be a glut of carrots at the moment - we had so many at the foodbank that volunteers were encouraged to take some so I made carrot and coriander soup today.

It was delicious and there is a little left for tomorrow and a good sized portion in the freezer.


5.  Today was a productive day.  I was up and ready for the day reasonably early - didn't want to greet the person delivering our shopping in my nightwear lol.  Apart from making the soup I managed to get all the laundry done and hoovered and cleaned all the upstairs floors.  Being retired it's very easy some days to fritter away the day so I'm glad to have a day where I can look back and think I've achieved something.  I also managed to do a bit of tidying up in the front garden during the week - the Christmas tree that came with the house got a good trim.  Hopefully I haven't cut it back too much but it seems pretty healthy.

I'm at the Foodbank in the morning and then we have my daughter and her family coming for dinner.  It will be nice to see the Grandkids as we haven't seen them much recently.

Have a good weekend all.

And a bonus blessing - our hosts for last weekend have just become grandparents.  Their youngest son and his wife are now the proud parents of baby Oscar.